I'm not ready to have a sex with my boyfriend. But my best friend tells me that I'm using him If I don't wanna have sex with him. I do love him. and I think that I don't need to do that If I'm not ready. What do you think? should I have sex?
2007-03-28 03:32:51 · 16 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell your so-called "best friend" to mind her own business. How on earth are you using him if you don't have sex with him? That is the most ignorant thing I have ever heard! If you're not ready, then don't do it and be proud about it! At least you can admit that you are not ready instead of giving in to pressure and having sex before you're ready. Look at all the girls on here who are asking questions, worried that they are pregnant because of stupid choices that they made! Your boyfriend should respect your decision and you should hold your head high, knowing that you are not giving into having sex just because of peer pressure. And maybe you should seek out a new "best friend". This one sounds like she is not looking out for your best interests!
2007-03-28 03:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. No one should have sex until they are ready. Love is also about companionship. Ask your friend if the opposite applies. Does your bf only like you so that he can have sex with you?
2007-03-28 03:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about what you fell, if you really love him then sex is not important to prove your love and males usually have more sexual urge them females. I think you shouldn't probably be having sex if you are not ready for it kissing,cuddling, hugging must be much comfortable.
2016-04-08 05:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by pillu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't have sex... it is not "using him" if you are not ready for it. If you do this because you feel you "have to" then you will regret it for along time....
And by the way... it goes like this:
Love = Respect
Lust/Passion = Sex
You can lust after someone you love, but just because you "love" someone, doesn't mean you lust after them.
2007-03-28 03:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you??? Probably too young for sex if you have to ask this question.
Wait until you are sure you are ready - not waiting=regret , and tell your best friend to grow up.
2007-03-28 03:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mauisnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, then dont do it. I did it before i was, and i regret it. You can love someone and it doesnt have to be all about sex.
2007-03-28 03:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by fabulous_girl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahah that`s insane, of course not, you don`t have to have sex with anybody to prove him you love him, and of course you`re not using him, when you have a relationship with someone is to love and care the other, not to give him sex, with time and with a major age sex comes and it`s great, when you love that someone, but when you`re young and not prepared sex can become a nightmare, listen to your feelings not what other people tell you, don`t let anyone force you do something you don`t want to, cause you`ll regret it later. good luck!! ;)
2007-03-28 03:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love = loss of mind = sex.
2007-03-28 03:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nope, if you are not ready of course not, and thats not a friend...if he really loves you he'll understand and will wait until you are 100% sure of having sex...GOOD LUCK
2007-03-28 03:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, ur best friend is not a friend. u arent using him at all, just because you date doesnt make you obligated to give him anything. if i could get anything back, it'd be my virginity. i wish i would have waited for someone that i undoubtedly loved, like marrage love.
2007-03-28 03:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋