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My niece had a relationship with a real pimp. Has been involved in sex with multiple partners. She is proud of it. I only see somebody that is confused. Who has some inside in this behaviour?

2007-03-28 03:31:38 · 6 answers · asked by hamster 2 in Health Mental Health

Insight instead of inside.... My niece is involved in the last 10 years with more than 70 partners. We assume that for a guy it normal, but I believe its not. She claims difficulty bonding with a partner. More family members are showing autistic behavior according to my psychiatist. I personally have myself an autistic disorder.

2007-03-28 03:51:32 · update #1

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That could be a sign of prior sexual abuse or chaos in the family. It indicates very poor personal boundaries. Beware the phrases "I'm just very sexual" and "don't judge me" from people because they are absolute bullocks. They are a red flag for problematic behavior.

2007-03-28 03:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Moore 7 · 0 1

Your question is very confusing, as there is not such thing as an "autistic family" but there are "autistic individuals."

Autistic individuals generally have extreme difficulty learning society's boundaries and what is and is not inappropriate behavior (including matters of personal safety). So your niece (if she's the autiostic one) may never have learned, or does not understand, the dangers of having sex with a pimp.

If she is not yet an adult, her parents can stop the relationship. If she is an adult, you or another adult can move for aguardianship, if she is engaging in behavior that is a danger to herself or other people.

2007-03-28 03:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It could be a boundary or a control issue.

Something totally unrelated to autism from what I have read.

I do not think that her behavior is related to autism at all.
As many people with autism have a very difficult time establishing and maintaining close emotional ties.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Baron-Cohen
Mr. Baron-Cohen has done many studies on the autistic and nothing leads to hyper sexuality as a condition of note.

2007-03-28 03:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by makeda m 4 · 1 0

Where does autism play into this? I was rather promiscuous in my younger years, but I am not autistic. I was just doing what I wanted, when I wanted to - no confusion about that whatsoever. Just same behaviors as most guys I know.

2007-03-28 03:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0 0

i can not understand your ending question
it is her defensive mechanism, obviously, her integrity is definitly dammaged and she tries to show 'pride'

2007-03-28 03:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Srbo Sutaric 5 · 1 0

You are so judgemental!!!

2007-03-28 03:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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