My current bf and myself and friendly with my ex, i am trying to set him up with someone, but part of me doesnt want him to have someone. is this normal?
2007-03-28 03:30:20 · 6 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's common, but not normal. You should let go of him. You are happy at the moment, and he clearly did not give you what you needed, otherwise you would still be togeter. So, let him have a chance at happiness too.
2007-03-28 03:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep perfectly normal. I felt the same way about my ex too. I tried to find him someone because I wanted him to be happy but I wound up hurting myself. I like him still and he lieks me thats why he is not with the ex. If your ex likes you still and you like him than maybe you t\wo should still be together. Good luck.,
2007-03-28 10:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by I love You 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for you to want to hold on a little. It sounds like you guys probably went out for awhile and not a ton of time has elapsed. It is up to you to decide if you want to hook him up but it may help you grow to set him up.
2007-03-28 10:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Reeve:
"It is up to you to decide if you want to hook him up but it may help you grow to set him up. "
If you hook him up you will feel better that he has someone and that you can feel safe, this way you'll always think of the possibility and it will be worse with the fact that he is single...
This way it will help you to move on knowing he has...
2007-03-28 11:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal, everyone goes through a stage where they don want their ex but they dont want anyone else to have him/her either. so no worries there...
2007-03-28 10:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by See the rainbow not the rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're just trying to hold on to anyone because of your own insecurities.
2007-03-28 10:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋