ME AND MY GIRL BEN TOGETHER FOR A YER AND A MONTH BUT HER PARENTS DONT KNOW YET AND WE BEN WANTING TO TELL THEM BUT DONT KNOW HOW SO WE ARE JUST WAITING FOR MY GIRLFRIEND TO TURN 18 BUT SHOULD WE WAIT OR WHAT
2007-03-28 03:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by DANNY R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the age gap between you two must be far and wide if you're asking that, but let me tell you something about parents, regardless of where you are or who you are: THEY FIND OUT EVERYTHING!! Believe me, I can testify to that. I used to talk to this guy and I was like 14 and he was 18 or 19, and we just talked on the phone. Well my mom ended up intercepting a conversation and he had a really deep voice so he sounded damn near 30, but she busted me out and told him my age because I did lie to him. But I want you to be realistic about this because if you are too old where they wouldn't go for it, than just break it off because it's gonna be some drama, but if for example she's like 16 and your 19 or 20, then it's still borderline. Another thing too is you can't expect a teenager to do "grown woman" things either without you going to jail. Be a stand up guy and let them know because parents always find out anyway so save yourself the trouble. Because if you had a daughter would you want her dating someone like you and you didn't know about it?
2007-03-28 03:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand why u would wait until she turns 18 are u like dramitcally older than her or what?!?!?!? If you really love each other and dont want her parents to like flip out if u are older than heri would definatly what!!! But other ways just tell them!
2007-03-28 03:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by JessieRae07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 13:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i would tell them asap! Unless you are over 18 and she is younger, then you would want to make sure they would turn you in!
2007-03-28 03:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm thinking ur either way over her age or her parents dont like ur race or religion. wait til she's 18... this way they can only offer their opinion, but cannot do anything legally.
2007-03-28 03:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the parents....so much easier hun
2007-03-28 03:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old she is, if that is long time to wait or not, if you really care about her and she care for you, maybe you should. because you cant hide it for a long time.good luck
2007-03-28 03:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by michelle a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y'all should just tell now so you could get it over with now
2007-03-28 03:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait....... other wise u may face big problm
2007-03-28 03:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait so it wont cause uneccessary drama.....
2007-03-28 03:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by Reeses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋