Ok im kind of a sensitive and shy guy. Not overly soft like if somebody says something mean i start crying. Im just saying relationship wise. Other than that im just a normal guy. But i dont know, do i have the right to date. I want to talk to this girl, she's 14 and she looks really good. But im trying to be realistic here, i dont think this is going to work, i just get that feeling if i dont talk to her i'll regret it. And i was planning to talk to her today but im passing on it because im too nervous. Do you guys think i should do this, plus im 16. I just get a feeling like im not good enough to be trying to talk to girls and im going to look like a total idiot. What do you guys think. remember she's 14.
2007-03-28 03:21:58 · 11 answers · asked by robinson_cj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all to go out with any girl, it doesn`t matter she`s the hottest girl on earth or the ugliest one, you have to have confidence in yourself, we all have good things in ourselves, so be very confident of yourself when you talk to a girl, we feel that confidence and we like confidence in a boy, and when you talk don`t hesitate and try not to get very nervous, even tough you will get nervous and she will notice, she will think you`re sweet, cause she made you feel nervous, you sound like a very sweet guy, go for what you want. you don`t lose anything, you better do it than regret you didn`t later, d it as a practice, anyway, you`re very young and you`ll meet so many girls, you have no idea, good luck!! :)
2007-03-28 03:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just work on yourself before you try to get into relationships with any girls. the thing is at such a young age people get emotionaly attached very quik and the relationships ofetn end badly. u might not be ready for it. The gap between the maturity level of a 16 and 14 year old is also big. if you do go out with someone then try to make it a bit older cos they might be more able to help you grow as a person and understand you better.
I dont see how being emotional translates into not being good enough to go out with someone. You are good enough. Everyone deserves to have a companion in life.
If you really like her then give it a try but remember to take it slow. Shez probably just as nervous and insecure as you. Dont even worry about it, everyone has insecurities at your age. You just need to work at your confidence.
2007-03-28 10:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Faz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her just so you won't go totally bonkers. You will probably find out she is not allowed to date but you will have some one to visit on the phone with. So a couple of years down the road it gets real tricky. Her parents had better Love you by the time you turn 18 and she is 16 and you want to be dating. Talk to her so she won't think there is something wrong with her. So far you are the only one in this relationship with a problem. Actually so far you are the only one in this relationship. She will probably be a grandmother by the time you say howdy.
2007-03-28 10:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be shy and sensitive but don't let that hold you back. Age is just a number so age don't matter as long as you don't get too serious as she is under age. You won't know until you ask her otherwise you might regret that you didnt speak and ask her out so much more. How will talking to her make you regret it unless your afraid you might make a fool of yourself, but you won't just be normal and have friend with you if you don't want to talk to her by yourself so you don't feel as nervous.Hope this helps good luck!!
2007-03-28 10:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cherryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her! Be brave and show the confidence that is burried inside of you. Talk to her if you only say hello everytime you see her. Just remember that she is two years younger than you. Also you may just find a friend if nothing else.
2007-03-28 10:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time to refine your date getting skills. Talk to her. Who cares what you look like. If you want to talk to her, do it. The only person you have to impress is you. Later you'll say, "Man I wish I knew this when I was 16." I say it all the time. All you have to do is talk to them. The worste thing that could happen is that they say 'no'. Is that so bad? You'll regret it if you don't.
2007-03-28 10:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should go 4 if slowly
like feel her how.
1st talk find out whats shes in 2
2nd then find out how she fills bout u then
3rd make a move or move on
2007-03-28 10:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by ?????? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'LL BE SHOCKED if an older guy like u asks her out! she'll probably say yes but if it doesn't work out there are other good looking girls to go after!
2007-03-28 10:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥αηηα♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go ahead and try and if it doesnt work atleast you tried and you wont ever have to wonder ...what did i miss?
2007-03-28 10:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER OUT!!!!! OR U WILL REGRET IT!!!!! DON'T MISS YOUR CHANCE WITH THIS GIRL!!! GIRL LIKE OLDER BOYS!!!!
2007-03-28 10:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Beauty is great!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋