I'm really looking for a guys opinion but women are free to answer as well. My cousin has been seeing a few different women & well he said there are a few who say they really like him even love him but their actions just aren't matching up to what they say. He said they don't try to be the woman N his life. They don't show that they're caring & understanding. He said that there is 1 who ask 2 see him & not just during the evening hours & she does really nice things 4 him & he's leaning towards being with her because she's the only one that seems 2 b trying.
I told him that all those other girls R doing is messing with his mind. When a woman really likes/loves you she shows it, she doesn't just say it. Just like a man she'll do those special & xtra things. So do guys look 4 girls to say it, do it or both, & ladies when you really like a guy & you tell him why is hard 4 you to show it? I told him that those women really didn't want him they just wanted c how bad he wants them
2007-03-28 03:18:27 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are 100% correct. More is communicated by what you do then what you say. The more someone likes you the more willing they will be to do those little extra things and the more they will want to see you. Tell him if they are not calling him and wanting to see him all the time then they do not really love him.
2007-03-28 03:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I like a man, even if it is on a friend level..I show it. Life is too short not to show someone you care for, that you care for them. This attitude has blown up in my face before but oh well, tis me. I don't engage or invest emotonally in a person if I don't like them. Either I like them or I don't. Period.
I don't know if this is the norm, but it is for this straightforward country gal.
We all play games to some extent but fooling around with someone's emotions is just plain mean.
Maybe he could give that nice caring girl a chance. At least she gives back. The others sound llike they are attention seekers. But hey, I could be wrong. :)
2007-03-28 10:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are a licensed Physiologist giving counseling. If not stop meddling and mind your own business.
2007-03-28 10:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋