Well, me & my bf have been seeing each other for 10 mos. now on & off. We recently had a heart to heart the other day & now he's been confessing things that he did while we were apart. He finally told me that he loved me & he's never said that to me before. He's finally calling me sweety & answering his phone in front of me every time it rings. He even told me that there was some girl that he fooled around while we were broken up that lied & said she was pregnant by him just to get him to stay with her.
I don't quite know how to take all of this in. He's being honest and finally telling me that he wants to be with only me. He's telling me all his secrets & has made me his best friend. How do I move on from this? It was a bit much to take in. I want to be greatful 4 his honesty & I am, but how do I move on now knowing all of these things?
2007-03-28 02:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to continue a relationship with him but how do we move past this?
2007-03-28 02:59:31 · update #1
its gonna be hard..it always seems like the right thing to be honest but it ends up being the biggest mistake u can make cause now they know and will always somehow manage to bring it back up again and then its thrown it ur face and all they have to blame is there self for telling u...sometimes things r just better left unsaid..u think ur the right thing by coming 4ward but now all u gave the other person r thoughts to run thru their head all the time and resentment...
2007-03-28 03:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay with him. If he's being honest about all of the past that's a good thing. And it takes a grown person to forget the past. Don't go back to what happened then. Try and focus on your life together from this point on and build from there. Leave all the hurt and pain you have been through in the past.
2007-03-28 03:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making this a big deal. I understand that its a lot to take in and its shocking all at once and all of that BUT it happened while the two of you were apart. He didn't do anything wrong here. He had no obligation to you at that moment and did what he wanted to do. You have a choice to make. Either respect and cherish him for his honesty and his attempt at change OR decide that its too much for you and leave him alone.
2007-03-28 03:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all this went on while you were broken up then so what. You were free to date as well. Be glad he got a taste of what is out there. He made his own choice to be with you and is acting like a partner should. rather then saying one thing and doing another. I always say actions speak louder then words. This will pass and your relationship will get stronger.
Hang in there.
2007-03-28 03:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather have found out 15 years from now when some teenager is on your doorstep asking to speak to his father?
He's made some mistakes and needs you to forgive him. He also now has an ongoing responsibility toward his child.
Sit down and discuss this fact with him. It will be a huge factor in any future relationship you have with him.
2007-03-28 03:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want this relationship, and it sounds like you do. Then you have to forgive him. You have to accept the fact that you two were not together when this took place, and that he had reigns to do his own thing. You have to get past it now, or it will end up ruining your relationship later on.
2007-03-28 02:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gal you have to forgive him and try and understand, the facts that he tells you every thing should mean a lot to you cause by the look of it he is trusting you know even though you had you ups and downs believe me every relationship does. so try your best to forgive him and move on with your lives and support him.
2007-03-28 03:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you appreciate his honesty as you throw his a$$ out the door!
2007-03-28 02:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do it because you have to. You're stronger than you think.
2007-03-28 02:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋