I have a rather strange question. I have two girls that i like right now. One of them i know likes me for sure but lives a long ways away, the other i am not so sure about but lives right in the town i live in. I don't know what one i should try to further my relationship with, any thoughts?
2007-03-28 02:50:36 · 13 answers · asked by Kevin O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think that you can definitely have a relationship with both of them (I mean like friendship...you shouldn't just give up on one cos you won't pick her for a girlfriend). But the way I see it, I would go for the closer one, cos if you don't have a car (and even if you do) it just becomes time-consuming and a pain in the neck. So, just go for the one that lives in your town and even if you are not sure if she likes you, you should just ask her out. The worst she can say is NO...that's OK, cos you can then start pursuing the one that lives further away.
So, keep in touch with both of them, pick the close one first and if you get rejected, you can start pursuing the one that lives long ways away...you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I know it sounds kinda cruel but you just have to be prectical these days. Good luck!
2007-03-28 03:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The one closer to you for sure. Evenif it doesn't work out. Find someone within an hour or so of where you live. long, long distance relationships are tough, especially if your young!
Good luck either way
2007-03-28 09:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should get to know these girls a little better b4 u make a decision like that, don't ljudge them by what;s on the surface, u could be setting urself up for dissapointments that way. by getting to know them u can find out what it is u have in common with them and that might probably help u to decide which of them u want to be with, GET TO KNOW THEM FIRST!!
2007-03-28 10:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by kamarla_phillips06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one that's closer to you...long distance relationships rarely ever work.
2007-03-28 09:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of an episode of Friends where Ross was dating two women. One who lives in Canada who he really likes, and the other who he didn't care for who lived in New York City. Stick with the one you like.
2007-03-28 09:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going for the 1 that lives closer to u and if that doesnt work ou tthan try fof the long distant relationship. but if that doesnt work out than ull have to go for another girl.
2007-03-28 09:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the one with a closer relationship..
2007-03-28 09:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance cannot be a determinigng factor in love but it is if* your out for sex. just choose the lady you like the most. the one that makes you completely happy.
2007-03-28 09:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go local...long distance RARELY ever works.
2007-03-28 09:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance relationships are harder to make work, I say go for the one close to you
2007-03-28 09:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋