Should we try to save the relationship?
HE and I have dated for 6 years.
My rule is he stops talking to the the hobag and his rule is to not talk about the hobag.
Do you think we can work it out> lol
2007-03-28 02:49:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you would stop talking abt the person if he stopped talking her right? so how can he demand that you stop talking about her. he just cant deal with being reminded that he does talk to her. here's a rule(one i will try to follow too but you know relationships and love are/is crazy...) if they(a man) doesnt give you what you put out or more, walk away with some pride* there's better. sometimes the amount of time spent in the relationship is a thing of comfort and not true love. if so, he would not want to talk to anyone else but you.
2007-03-28 02:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong laying each other rules and leaving the card open on the table, at least u know what's there to compromise....if u both lay out ur rules make sure u let each other know the reason behind it by being honest to urself and to ur partner. communication is the key to good relationship and compromise is the key to ease things down and balance restore between the two of u...learn to listen when one needed to speak and speak when one needed to listen. Be sensitive to each other needs and u'll have a better relationship together. If u both have feeling for each other and it's deep, i believe things will work out as long as ur both willing but if things felt rocky try analyzing things out, it might do u good. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-28 09:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by wildfire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you guys keep the "your rule,my rule" on,for sure you all can't work it out.And...you should try to save this relationship if you really love him.6 years girl,6 years!!And you think it's easy to hold a realtionship for 6 years?!Think about it girl,couples should tolerate each other.Good Luck and may God bless you all ^-^
2007-03-28 10:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by monsiuer_reaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if everyone is in agreeance that the hobag needs to not be spoken to and everyone follows the rules, then you should be ok....unless of course he slept with the hobag...don't necesarily have to talk to do that....
2007-03-28 09:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cinna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who is this hobag? his ex?
he should not be talking to her anyways
2007-03-28 10:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you even have to worry about another woman (which is what I'm assuming you mean) then you should be concerned.
2007-03-28 09:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋