He broke up with me more than a month ago. He said there will be a chance that we will be together again but he needs time and space to himself for the moment. I still trust that he's not cheating on me and doesn't have another new love interest.
We still text each other quite often these days and he seems quite concerned about me. What is he thinking?
2007-03-28 02:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we haven't hang out recently and we're not sexually active.
2007-03-28 03:11:28 · update #1
i know when i am in-love, i dont want to be away from that particular person. maybe he's not ready. what is the level of his maturity? He seems a bit selfish to keep you holding on yet he's prob out shaggin anything that moves. He can "seem" concerned all day, but is he really concerned for you or is all the concern over him? You have to sit him down for an ultimatum(sp*) Either he wants you now or not at all. Let him go(easy said, I know) but some people are not even worth the effort. He's one of them.
2007-03-28 02:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oui, this is a very complicated answer. There are several things that this could mean. 1.) depending on his maturity level. 2.) is he financially stable w/o you. 3.) how often do you hang out? and last but not least 4.) have you stopped talking for a long period of time after the break up. If he is a mature man then he may really be sincere about getting back together if not mature he could possibly just need a person..any person to just be there till he finds somethin else or decides to be like "oh i need more time" number 2 is self explanitory. 3.) if he is in fact sincere and you two have been hanging out he could be more serious about getting back together. Just hoping while you aren't being sexually active during those times.. because if you are he may just be hanging out just to get a piece. If not sexually active and he is being romantic that means something. Last but not least if you have stopped talking that is not good. He may have a memory flash of you and be like wow I really want her then he will change his mind again after he has you, or he could have realized he had made a huge mistake. So if he's a real man he will admit his mistakes. and if you havent stopped talking then your golden.
2007-03-28 09:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by kirby k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you say he does sound like he's interested. Like you said, there must be some personal problem of his that's keeping you away from him. Maybe he still loves. I'm 90% sure of that. Just ask him if you can do anything to help and he might get back together witth you if the probs(if any) are solved.
Good luck! I hope my advice works.
2007-03-28 09:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Drools over home made food 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he need time for himself to think if really wanna be with you or not,but if happens to me,i will not take him back,sorry ether you love me or not right off the bat
2007-03-28 09:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends because im in a situation like that. he still wants you but he doesnt know to what extent. ask him upfront its easiest to do or just text him.
2007-03-28 09:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what he's thinking but I know what I'm thinking...forget about him! For how long are you going to put your life on hold for him anyway?
2007-03-28 09:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is playing with u
2007-03-28 09:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by nona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋