Ok so last night my girl got black out drunk and passed out at a friends house. The last time she talked to me was at 7 pm, with a text that said " Im drinking". Well 12 rolls around and I get worried. We live together so I think that if she is drunk I can pick her up. Well 2 o clock comes around and I am worried. I call I text nothing. Well I go to her friends house and knock on the door. When she opens it her friend is really suprised to see me and says we "all just got really drunk" and sorry, for no reason. She says she will go get my girlfriend and shuts the door. When she comes back she says that she is in the back room. Well I find my girlfriend naked and angry that i'm there. She dosen't sleep in the nude. So this is the first thing that suprises me. In shock I say "I was just worried and I haven't talked to you" i'll leave now. I go home. This getting black out drunk thing happens alot with her. I drink but not to the point of passing out, and not on the weekday.
2007-03-28 02:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by Tyler C 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I end it? Everytime I bring it up she says that I don't need to tell her what to do. But when I go out she hastles me and tells me I have to be home, and always accuses me of cheating on her.
2007-03-28 02:32:30 · update #1
Sometimes when people continuously accuse their mate of cheating...they are the one that's doing it. Not always, but a lot. If you like being accused of things you haven't done, stay with her because that will never stop. She will keep you on a short leash and expect you to let her do whatever she wants. Is that the type of relationship you want? Probably not. Find someone more mature, more self-confident, more trustworthy and trusting, less of a black out drinker and who is willing to follow the rules you both determine for your relationship.
2007-03-28 02:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by ☼♫Hmm..Interesting♪☼ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's the things that she is not saying that hurt the most. Dont let her abuse your kindess. Be vocal about your likes and disklikes. Discuss these to her; come up with a solution. If there is no solution, then move on and it's over.
2007-03-28 02:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by a_l_t_e_r_n_o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was cheating on you when she was supposedly drunk. thats y she was mad when u saw her......er.....in that state. i think you really should end it. i hope u find someone that respects u and ur outings.....good luck.
2007-03-28 02:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by jenrulz13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this girl and move on, its obvious she cant be bothered enough to let you know not to expect her home.
2007-03-28 02:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a drunk and probably cheating on you as well....yeah, it's over...dump her and move on.
2007-03-28 02:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Cinna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY WITH HER...READING YOUR LETTER ABOVE IT IS OBVIOUS YOU HAVE NO CHANCE OF GETTING ANOTHER GIRL X
2007-03-28 02:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋