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I really need some tips and pointers to bring up my confidance. I am 5'9 130lbs, I have blonde hair and blue eyes.... which most people tell me that they would kill to look like... BUT I HAVE ABSOLUTLY NO self esteem or confidance...

What can I do to bring my self esteem up....

2007-03-28 02:25:10 · 21 answers · asked by Scared 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

Hey, I was in your shoes. But my problem was seeking everyone else's approval instead of my own. I just started appreciating me for who I am. I overcame my low self-esteem and now I feel great. Just start naming qualities you love about yourself. They can be personality quirks and/or looks. Write them down if you have to and put them in a spot where you can have a daily reminder on how special you truley are.

2007-03-28 02:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-12-02 22:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I think going to a spa with a girlfriend,sister or your mom can work wonders. You can get a makeover which doesn't mean you look bad its all about being pampered and catered too. It's just getting spruced up. A new hairdo and maybe taking some photos maybe at Glamour Shots or anywhere can be a nice pick me up. Hope this helps and good luck sweetie

2007-03-28 02:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sugastack 3 · 0 0

You have to think only positive thoughts about yourself. Start really loving yourself. You can't love other people if you hate yourself.

There are some hypnosis downloads on the net which are supposed to boost your self esteem. I don't know how well they work. but there's no harm in trying.

Here's a website you could try:
http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/

2007-03-28 02:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Amelie 6 · 0 0

Oh gosh, please see your avatar. Its pretty. You have blue eyes and blonde hair and you have a nice heart so go out there and make people smile. Be nice to all, get nice compliments in return. Find God in your heart and go to church.

Have good friends and family and when you have people who love you and care for you there is no such thing as insecurity or low confidence. Just be the world of what you are!!!

2007-03-28 02:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0 0

Judging from your question, it seems that you are placing all of your self-worth on your looks. Besides being attractive, what else do you have going for you? Maybe if you sit down and think about it, you have a lot more going for you than you think. Maybe it is time to start something new, something that has nothing to do with the way you look.

2007-03-28 02:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 1 0

You have to believe in yourself; something that's easy to say but incredibly difficult for a person like you to do. But not impossible.
I've been there (dominating parents; made me feel worthless) but have been awakened and am now taking my life into my own hands.
Just remember - you're just as good and worthwhile as anybody else. And don't let anyone tell you different.

2007-03-28 02:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Stop looking at your self on the outside and start looking on the inside. Figure out what kind of person you are and what you want to be. Don't doubt yourself and face whatever like throws at you with a smile. Be strong! Be you!!!

2007-03-28 02:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0 0

Learn to love yourself for who you are and be confident in what you do. Tell yourself that you're a good person and that you're happy with yourself. Even if you don't believe it now, in time you should. Good luck.

2007-03-28 02:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by pixie 4 · 0 0

You need to just starting feeling good about yourself...Think positive about your way of life and surroundings...Dont let any negative thoughts or vibes get the best of you...You need to carry yourself with confidence...

2007-03-28 02:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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