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DON'T ask him! If you ask him or show him you're interested and present him with an opportunity, he'll take it anyway because he's a man.

If he takes an opportunity you present to him then you'll never know for sure if you're miss right or miss right now.

My word - think about it what would a guy say to "do you like me?". Not many men are brave enough to be honest with a woman when the answer is "no!". Especially shy men!!!

Shy or not, if a guy likes you he'll let you know one way or another.

We women are just too guilty of making excuses for men being lame such as "he's shy", "he's confused", "he's scared", "he finds commitment difficult" etc. That is never the case.

Think about a guy in your past or perhaps a friend's past who didn't treat her right for one of those reasons. Then think about the girl he met and behaved himself well with. So was he really shy, scared, afraid, etc? No - he just wasn't that interested.

Even if he does like you, do you really want to be with a man who from day one you're having to coax even the smallest flirtation from? Just imagine what hoops you'll have to jump through to get him to make any major statements or commitment!

Stop trying to figure him out. If he likes you as much as you deserve to be liked, he'll step out of his comfort zone and make you aware of it. If he doesn't, then use your time more wisely by dating a man who is that into you.

2007-03-28 02:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

He may seem shy but there is a catch he is man!!!! Even the most shy person will fancy someone and if u have not seen any responce to u from him on his own he's problem not on the same page u r. So step aside just be your self.Love should be natural and not coaxed!!!

2007-03-28 02:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by lou lou 2 · 1 0

I guess I'm stuck on the fact that you're friends with someone you can't talk to? Take your time and get to be friends that can talk, really talk. If you can't talk before you date, there is a great chance you won't be able to talk once you date, and dating without communication is a straight dead way to an ended relationship and friendship. There is no rush, find out what he thinks about things, how he feels. It will help you determine before hand whether you two could have a future together or not. :)

2007-03-28 02:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra 5 · 2 0

Try talking to him more. Kind of feel the situation out. Maybe ask him to a movie or to do something together. Let him know somehow that you are interested. A lot of guys are afraid to get hurt or look stupid if the girls doesn't like him. Maybe say something nice about him and ask him out. Good luck!

2007-03-28 02:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by natsuko1 3 · 1 0

NEVER PLAY HARD TO GET WITH A SHY GUY... WONT WORK, YOU WILL PUT HIM RIGHT OFF AS HE WILL TAKE IT LITERALLY THAT YOU HATE HIM SO WHY GO NEAR YOU


Ask him out and let him know you wont bite or treat him like a perve and stop being mates if he likes you.


He may stare at you then look away, stare at your boobies, want to touch you (ie tickle) hug etc, try and impress you, want to spend time with you, tease you, be quiet or awkard around you etc



Ask him out to the cinema etc and let him know its ok to put his arm around you , Maybe put yours around him or rest into him or pretend to be scared in a horror film.


he may try and hold you close to get near your boobies... go nose to nose and kiss him.


If he likes you and you get this far then you make out on a second date ( saying you did not blow it dude still like you)

he should relx then be cecome all passioate with your etc.


But unlike girls guys have the problem of being misinterpreted as so e perve etc if they like a girl or rejected for the smallest thing hence shyness

2007-03-28 06:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Make an effort to talk to him, find out your mutual interests.

Your gut instinct, I find, is always right in these instances.

You can generally just tell if someone is interested in you.

If you think he is, take it from there. invite him out, to a gig you both might like, to the cinema, etc.

2007-03-28 02:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Flirt with him and see if he flirts back, but do it subtly i.e. squeeze his hand and see if he squeeze back. Then if all fails just ask him, but lead into it gently (especially if he really is as shy as you described).

2007-03-28 02:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Just ask him directly. Much easier than messing around wondering you will know exactly where you stand then.

2007-03-28 02:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by djp6314 4 · 1 0

give him time to warm up to you and start talking to him more
provided he is truly interests you he will slowly get closer, and talk more,
soon he will come around and then he is yours

2007-03-28 03:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Ask him gently and nicely if he has feelings for you when you're on your own.

2007-03-28 02:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by ralphseviltwin 2 · 1 1

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