Been on 4 dates with the guy I'm seeing now, we have made out, nothing much more...he calls once or twice a week, and I see him at work a couple days a week. I really like him but he hasnt asked to be exclusive. I just found out a guy I thought I had no chance with that I was interested in is interested in me, Is it okay for me to go out with him since the first guy hasnt mentioned being exclusive?
2007-03-28 02:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way me and the guys are 20.
2007-03-28 02:18:55 · update #1
also i am a virgin and wont have sex until I am in a exclusive relationship.
2007-03-28 02:20:23 · update #2
Juggle one man at a time. If you've been really interested in this second guy, be truthful with the first guy. Otherwise, don't date the second man while dating the first. In a reversal of roles, you wouldn't want to find a guy you were dating out with someone else, please don't do this to him. Anyway, one man at a time is more than enough, lol, we weren't meant to handle more than one at a time, what a load of worries that would be.
2007-03-28 02:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you aren't in an exclusive relationship, going on a date with the other guy should be okay. But just remember, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
Before doing anything with the second guy, you should discuss your relationship with the first guy. The first guy may have a different idea about where the relationship stands.
It doesn't hurt to up front and honest in the beginning.
2007-03-28 09:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not? Nothing is holding you back- besides what if you miss out on this chance and then nothing ever happens with the first guy? Who knows, a little bit of jealousy might just push him in the right direction
2007-03-28 09:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you have a chat with the guy you are currently dating. He may not have specifically stated he is exclusive to you because you have not brought it up. Don't screw up what may be a good thing for a barely maybe thing.
2007-03-28 09:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you think if the 1st guy decided to see someone else too?? All I know is that it's pretty early stages to be already interested in someone else.. If I was the 1st guy as soon as you told me this I would turn and go the other way and say "you're not for me"
2007-03-28 09:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's ok. It's called dating. If you want to be diplomatic you can mention this other guys interest to the guy you've been on four dates with.
2007-03-28 09:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not okay to go out with the other guy until you sleep with the first guy and get dumped while crying.
2007-03-28 09:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is o.k. but if one of the guys ask about the other, don't lie! Always be honest.
2007-03-28 09:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by sim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with which ever guy makes u the happiest
2007-03-28 09:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its okay to go out with the other one too.
2007-03-28 09:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋