how can i become a social man?

Question

i mean i want someone to attract towards me.i have to done it by showing my intelligents.for that i have to become a fun loving person.how can?any advice?

Answer 1

Put some lipstick on and grow some boobs.

Answer 2

Man by nature is a social being.

Since when u have become unsocial.

I understand what u mean?

U want to be heard and u want to mixed with people and enjoy the company

Attend few personality development course

Learn community skill

This will provide you a good launch pad

Answer 3

Just by being yourself dont try so hard for some one to be attracted to you be yourself and i bet you more women will be on your shoes then ever before. I give you any example for my point of veiw smile at people ask them how there days were dont be afraid to be a risk taker because you never know what can happen. trying going out more with your friends more you hang out the better your social skills will be and another thing dont be afraid to step out of the crowd but dont step out to much were you look like a nut.

Best of wish hope things go well for you.

Answer 4

First, you have to have confidence in yourself. If you don't believe that you are attractive, fun, and intelligent then no one else will. Next, you have to put yourself in social situations. Go to a place where you don't know anyone and tell yourself that you are going to meet at least 3 people. Get comfortable starting conversations and participating in them. Once you are confident you will be able to attract whomever you desire. Good luck!

Answer 5

Try to be very careful when arranging your relationship with people you know, nevermind how wide you know those people, ask about them about their situation, their work, from time to time, ask them about their parents, remember their birthdays, their marriage dates ... etc. A small phone on his birthday with out being expected worth $1000 or more :) ... Try to gather old friends, try to arrange parties :) you will find yourself social... At the beginning you may face some memory problems but you will get over it.

Answer 6

Polish your ears, water your brains, and sharpen your tongue...
Ponder on this note, imagine it in various ways, decipher the meaning hidden in it... you will realise the answer to your question. Remember you are already half social, your already coming out with your problems on Yahoo! answers... its just another half that needs to come out of the shell....

Hint: listen to shine/wisdom is like water/tongue is a sword

Answer 7

Do good things to others, give something, praise someone, make someone happy, cheer-up always, be there for someone, give your ears to others, be helpful and that may be make u famous and by that way you would feel you are social :) that's all

Answer 8

Stop trying too hard. When you try too hard...people know it and can be put off. I would say you need to relax, smile and listen to what people have to say.....focus on them rather than how YOU are coming across. This will help to relax you even more.

Best wishes

Answer 9

individuality...that's all we are! an individual living to be our own self! but to be social is to share ideas, interact with people, listening to them say and yes, to let that special person know that u care a lot for her! it's not jst the words...it's more of the actions!
Goodluck!

Answer 10

u cnt b ne1 who u rnt ! though necessity is the mothr of change.... just try loosening up .... try to tak a FEW risks... things will automatically come to u