I had sex with my own mom. I didn't knew she was my biological mom. Later I get to know she is my mom. We are married. What can I do?
2007-03-28 01:51:42 · 8 answers · asked by OG 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Very strange.....but the answer is obvious.
004.023 Prohibited to you (For marriage) are:- Your mothers, daughters, sisters; father's sisters, Mother's sisters; brother's daughters, sister's daughters; foster-mothers (Who gave you suck), foster-sisters; your wives' mothers; your step-daughters under your guardianship, born of your wives to whom ye have gone in,- no prohibition if ye have not gone in;- (Those who have been) wives of your sons proceeding from your loins; and two sisters in wedlock at one and the same time, except for what is past; for Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful;-
(QURAN)
2007-03-28 01:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by shockoshocko 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
This case is complicated but I can tell you the Most adequate Jusritic opinion agreed upon by Most jusrists:
1- If you don't have children, the mariiage is Null. you just separate and you may divorce her to complete the legal procedures only.. as in this case there's no valid marriage from the begining, God shall forgive you as you didn't know she's your mom. In this case you shall not pay her a monthly maintenance as a wife, but you'll support her living as your mother. This is a duty on you as Muslim.
2- If you have children, then you'll have to Divorce her and keep the matter secret as the children wont be under esteemed in the eyes of the society. Divorce her as she's not your mom, Custody of the children remains for her if they're under age and are subject to the kids discreation if they're 21 years old +.
you shall pay her a maintenaince as well as the kids. the kids bear your name as the rule states "The Boy Belongs to the Bed Intercoursing man".
3- Her Kids from another man are forbidden to you to marry as they're your sisters. They're also forbidden from marrying your kids from another woman.
4- You may still live together but without sexual intercourse. She's your Mom now. if you find it hard to do it without sex, then live separately.
5- The whole matter is forgivable as there's nothing called "unforgivable" sins in Islam, and because you didn't know. Try to begin a new life and forget.
2007-03-28 02:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence of Arabia 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are U a Muslim ? How could U make such a terrible mistake to marry and have sex with your own Mom ? Did you check her background b4 making such mistake ?
If U are a Muslim, U have to break off your relationship as husband and wife with your Mom immediately. U have to beg for forgiveness from ALLAH S.W.T., your wife ( Mom ) your dad ( if still around ) and your other family members. U must regret your wrong doing and Taubat Nasoha, do not repeat the mistake and bear the shame.
If U are not a Muslim, then it is upto U to decide.
2007-03-28 02:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by atbt 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
HA HA u making this up hey guys he being stupid dont awnser this question how funni u need to get a life u fool and if this is trru why do u need a MUSLIM person to awnser this for u AND why would u SLEEP with here if u older than u LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE
2007-03-28 01:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by POLLYPOPPY 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why how old is your mom now? may be shes 50 how come you married a 3x older that you stupid brat!!!
2007-03-28 01:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Arwin V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friend don't freak out,just get divorce.and since you didn't know,you haven't done wrong towards ALLAH.u just must leave her as your wife,and start to communicate with her as your mum
2007-03-28 01:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
wow, ok, wow, wow not gonna touch that at all.
2007-03-28 01:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Gravitic 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to leave her
2007-03-28 01:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋