Alright, I have my first "nearby boyfriend". We've been dating for a couple of months. I was going to stay with him for a while, but now he's having to move back in with his parents, so that means I'll hardly see him anymore, and we'll never have private time. Anyway, a guy I dated a while ago is acting like he's interested in me again. We really hurt each other, and he stayed angry for a long time. But now that we're talking again, it feels...good. The only thing is that he lives in Seattle and I in Louisiana. I don't know why I'm feeling like this again, and I don't know what I should do...
2007-03-28 01:51:27 · 8 answers · asked by LivingDeadKat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from your ex he is your ex for a reason.Also long distance relationships almost never work out.Think about the reasons you broke up that should cure you of making another hurtful mistake..Good Luck..
2007-03-28 01:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the reasons you broke up. It is almost never a good thing to get back together with an ex because they're an "ex" for a reason. Why won't you see the new guy if he moves back in with his parents? Can't he come to your place? Long distance relationships work if your expectations are low, but why have that when you can be so much more fulfilled with a guy nearby? There are plenty of men in Louisiana. Single, good looking ones too.
2007-03-28 08:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by kat4noles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're feeling this way because you are in limbo. Things are really going that great in your current relationship and now an old flame is back in the picture. My advice to you is not get back with your ex. He lives out of state and you hurt each other in the past. It's hard enough to make a fresh new relationship work long distance but to try to make one work when you have a history of drama with this person is sure to be a short-lived romance.
See how it goes with your current guy. It may not be all that bad.
2007-03-28 08:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by teacher101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself . are you willing to have a long distance relationship? are you willing to risk geting hurt again? are you willing not to be able to see your bf as much as you used to ? only you can answer this. if you are willing to , then give it a try. don`t just ignore it because you`ll always wonder what if. if it doesnt work out, at least you tried. good luck!
2007-03-28 08:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by imissy0u* ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like you are frantically looking for any guy who has "private time" available for you. I recommend you chill for a minute and discover who you really are and not define your self as simply someones girlfriend?
2007-03-28 08:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
date the one you love
2007-03-28 08:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a close relationship is better than a long distance one...
2007-03-28 08:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by gago 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and tomorrow or the day after some new guy will catch your eye
so do whatever
2007-03-28 08:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋