ok heres the deal: im 15 and i want to ask this guy out and my mom says im to young to date but my dad says im not, and i was told that if a girl asks a guy out then she has to pay for everything and that she has to pick up the guy. is this true?
2007-03-28 01:48:57 · 10 answers · asked by sassysammy92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
society has changed all the rules which make life difficult to figure out. i think you should in a subtle way let this boy know you are interested and let him ask and call you. yes there is girl power and i believe it is a good thing when it is Self Power. not just taking control in all things. do you want to be treated like a lady or a tramp? then that is how you should proceed. if you behave like you have some class then hopefully a boy with some class will see it apprectiate it and treat you well. and if he doesn't kick him to the curb. YOU DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED. by others as well as your self. but if you do ever ask someone out, you should be ready to take charge of the whole date and at least offer to pick up and pay. Good Luck!!
2007-03-28 02:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by verlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whethere you're too young or not isn't something the general public can decide for you. Each household is different. Some 15 year olds are more mature than others and vice versa. You parents must be thinking what's best for you. Why not ask if you can go on a group date?
There's really no rule such as the one you've described. No one HAS TO PAY for the other. I've been on dates where I paid for the meal and the guy paid for the movie and popcorn, etc. There's no rule. Besides, if you go on a group date, you can pay for yourself and you wouldn't have to worry about that. :)
2007-03-28 08:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In these times and days, so not true. You should always offer to go halfway (pay for your own, he pay for his). If you really like him, sit down and talk with your mom first and tell her your dad told you he thought you were old enough to date, and that you think you can handle the responsibility of a dating relationship. If everything goes good there then you just let the fun times happen! Good Luck Hun!
2007-03-28 08:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should only date this guy if ur parents agree to you dating at all. Second, if you wanna go out with this guy then just ask him to go out on a very non-pressure date. Ask him if he wants to go to the batting cages, go out for ice cream or something that you would enjoy doing alone in case you get bored halfway through :). You also want to make sure its something inexpensive so that he can afford to pay for you both or you can at least afford to pay for yourself. But trust me...you have TONS of years to date so dont rush. I hope you have a good time and be safe :)
2007-03-28 08:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hbluegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not too young to date, just too young for any hanky panky nonsense. Don't know about the pick up story, you can ask him if he wants you to pick him up or meet you there, let him decide, go prepared, if the bill comes and he doesn't reach for it, you pay, if he does reach, offer to pay your portion, if he insist that he will pay, say thank-you and award him with a little good bye kiss at the end of the date...Good luck and dress up baby!
2007-03-28 08:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 15, how do you plan to pick him up?
Why don't you go to the movies with a bunch of friends?Everyone pays their own way.I think you are too young to go on a date with just the two of you.
2007-03-28 09:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...hard ...its awkward with the parents you don't want to upset either of them. Its upto you whether you pay for anything or he does, its not written in stone who has to pay. Perhaps both pay halfs that way you'll have his respect, an know that he won't just be after a free ride all the time
2007-03-28 08:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mona Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT true! :) If you ask him out on the date, then you want to come prepared just in case however don't think that you HAVE to pay. :)
2007-03-28 08:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and he isnt going to be a good boyfriend if he makes you pay all the time anyways, if he is a good boyfriend he will at least offer to pay.
2007-03-28 09:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by ME569 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ask him...but on a first date, he should pay!!!
2007-03-28 08:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by lyn_sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋