I love him to bits, we've been together for 6 months n i don't think he would ever actually cheat on me, but i know he does flirt with girls down at his local pub. I know flirting is not all that bad, but i can't help but feel extremely jealous cos i know he does it! Is it really anything i should worry about or should i just stop worrying?
2007-03-28 01:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flirting is an art of socilization. for as long as it will not affect your relationship then theres nothing to worry. but since your not comfortable with it then you have to discuss that to your boyfriend. i hope that the two of you will find a better solution to that. communication will be the key. and if you are secured with his love to you then no need to worry.
2007-03-28 01:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by <fish_me> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may or may not be something to worry about, if i was you i'd talk to him about it let him know how you feel, tell him it bothers you, dont give him the ultermatum of its either you or the flirting that usually wont get you anywhere, but i would say just talk to him, he might reassure you. If he tells you your being stupid, dont let him b/c you can't help the way you feel - believe me!
2007-03-28 08:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mona Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you then he will definitely stop, maybe 6 months isnt long enough for him to feel the way you do. Give him time to accept or try to be committed in the relationship. To me 6 months is way to early to feel love, You know no one in 6 months time.
2007-03-28 09:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by latin_reynasoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does it purposely to make u jealous. he maybe wants to see how secure he would feel about you. but anyways coming to the point, next time he flirts around, dont care behalf casual, as though nothing just happened. even u go around with boys and have fun. ten see the reaction on his face. if he feels a bit insecure, then he loves u truly, but if he continues flirting around then be careful, he might be upto something. well just check on his behaviour and u'll come to know. all d best!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 08:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by viji_33_33 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is just flirting with other girls when ur around and he doesnt respect u then u should be worried and upset but if he is just doing it on purpose to make u jelous ...then dont worry he loves u but he just wants to know how much u love him ...then dont worry and show that u r jelous.
2007-03-28 09:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Natasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men flirt, all women flirt, some people flirt and dont even know it. everybody flirts in a pub or bar after a few drinks. let him know how you feel!!!
2007-03-28 08:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel and see how things are after that. He may not flirt anymore if you tell him it bothers you. And if he continues and you told him how you felt and it still bothers you enough to post about it, I suggest you take your commitment with someone else.
2007-03-28 08:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has a past rep for cheating on his girlfriends i would be worried, if not then wait until he gives a reason not to trust him!!!
2007-03-28 08:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by Proud to Be Mommy!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know iv been having that same problem as you! i decided to just ignore it, even though it is REALLY hard to! or if u want u can do it to him and see how it makes him feel! good luck Chickie!
2007-03-28 08:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are like this....quit worrying about it.
2007-03-28 08:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋