how far would you go for the person you love? what would you do, put yourself through? when is enough enough

Answer 1

When is enough enough for the person you love?....never

Answer 2

Sounds like it's enough already. You shouldn't have to put yourself through anything. If you are asking yourself this question, You've already answered it yourself. Love is unconditional and it has to be by both sides. Don't beat yourself up by changing who you are or by going against what you believe in. Because from personal experience, no matter what you do it's not going to help. It will only hurt. You will start feeling bad about yourself and you are your own worse enemy when it comes to that point. You need to get out of this relationship if your asking yourself this question. It's both unhealthy and dangerous.

Answer 3

I go all the way and put myself through alot of stuff. Right now actually I am doing it. I love my fiance to death. I would do anything for him. He always thinks I'm cheating on him, I would never do that. I have talked and talked and talked to him about it but it last a couple days then he's right back into it. I try to make him happy but here lately everytime we lay down we are arguing. I kinda dread going to bed becuase I know as soon as we lasy down he's gonna say something and we are going to go to bed mad at each other. There is never enough when you love someone though. You will put yourself thru the same stuff everyday just to be with that person. You will try to make it work the best you can becuase you love them and would give them to world if you could.

Answer 4

I have gone pretty far and that is because when you are really in love you will do anything for that person no matter what it takes and sometimes it bites you in the back because some people dont use it I think you need to analize what is going on enough is when you lose who you really are that is when you need to say ok I am done

Answer 5

Such a difficult question. Normally I would answer this by, "I don't know until I would be in that situation" but I think I'll try to give you a better answer than that. I would do anything that required severe mental and emotional stress and trauma even, as long as it was not BY the person I love rather to keep them instead. I would get a harder job, I would sell anything I own. Honestly I don't know if I could ever withstand torchure though.

Answer 6

Chloe was dead on with her answer. You can only give 100 % of yourself and when you aren't receiving that back you are in the relationship for what? To give all you have but never to gain anything from it? Relationships are built on two people working together and building a future together..if obstacles get in the way you overcome them or you don't.....when you cant overcome what is in the way then maybe its time to take yourself out of the picture and examine your life and focus on what you really want. If you truly love someone and they truly love you .....then you will know....

Answer 7

When you love someone you feel you would walk over burning coals and to the end of the earth for them.

There comes a point however when you are putting yourself out there for them and getting nothing back and you keep trying and trying that you have to give up. I used to be in love with a man that is an alcoholic. I tried and tried to help him but there was nothing I could do. It got to the point where I had to save myself because I knew parts of me where dying in my trying to help him. It got down to either saving myself or living a life where I felt unloved, used, and unappreciated.

There are times you have to save yourself even when you love someone with all your heart.

Answer 8

It took me years and years to figure this out, and it's still hard to put into words, but basically -- Love shouldn't make you feel sick -- physically or emotionally.
When you get to the point where you feel you are losing your values system and your sense of self -- it's time to move on. I've seen women give up careers, education and even thier children for the person they "love." The truth is, someone who loves you would never ask you to go through so much for them.
~ good luck

Answer 9

I'd do whatever I had to do to protect them. Enough is never enough in a loving relationship. I can say with total honesty that I'd step in front of a bullet for my fiance to ensure his life was still his. I'd do the same for my three children also.

Answer 10

When you first meet and were getting to know them, you would stay out late, eat only when they were hungery. Funny how things change later on.... Try to bring back that feeling in your head of the first times together and pull from that to help you remember why you love them. Its easy to look at the bad times, but don't dwell on them, think of happier time to come. Anything thats good is worth fighting for!