im 16 with a 8 mnt old baby girl !! i live with her dad weve been together for 3 years and he havent propose he said hes gonna propose but idk when well besides that we are having many arguments and alot of crapt had have happened but i forgive him cuz i love him ! do i have a future with i mean he supports me in everything even in school and hes a great guy but he can be a buttwhole at times hes 29 years old !! hes my life him and my daughter!!!! what should i do!!!
2007-03-28 01:24:47 · 21 answers · asked by ShadysGringita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Honey, you are way too young to even get married, let alone be a mom.
You do realize that he can get into with the law, because you are a minor. That is not good.
He will propose I guess when he feels the time is right. All men can be as you say "buttwholes" sometimes. Mine is...LOL. But yeah I still love him even after 8 1/2 yrs. There is no ring on my finger...and you don't have to be married to spend the rest of your life with someone.
What you need to focus on more is your baby girl. Never mind getting married.
2007-03-28 01:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by dolphins_fanatic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you have gotten yourself into such a terrible mess at such a young age. Where are your parents? First of all, why would a 29 year old man want to date a 16 year old girl--besides the obvious, but I mean for the long term.
No, you should not marry this person, and I will be very honest with you--stay in school and plan for your future without this man because you are too young to be involved in such an adult life.
2007-03-28 01:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see... he is 29, your 16 been together 3 years and have an 8 month child... can afford an computer and Internet service and you want me to believe this story. If this is true or not get a life and quit asking dumb questions as I have a very hard time believing this as your question doesn't even sound like a 16 year old.
2007-03-28 01:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Really ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not marry him. It is quite possible he will end up in jail for being a sexual deviant. If you have been together for 3 years, that means a 26 year old MAN was dating a 13 year old child. This makes him a pedophile. Do not blame yourself because you were too young to understand why this is wrong. You will understand one day, but right now you need to find a trusted adult and get out of the situation ASAP.
2007-03-28 01:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts don't do it. I know its easy to divorce now days but wait, get your education and a job and be independent. Things don't get any better when you get married especially when there is such a difference in ages. He's your life because you are so young. let him support the baby but don't marry. You have so many years ahead of you to grow and a whole world to experience..every few years things and you will change even with a child. Go ahead, grow with the child but don't get married yet..
2007-03-28 01:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by shespi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened to a 16 year old living at home, going to school, and hanging out with her friends until a curfew of about 10 and coming home to do her homework and then going to bed. Maybe hanging out some more with friends on weekends and having a job or some chores. Now, there out making babies. WHere's your baby daddy now?
2007-03-28 01:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Gay R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's 29!!! Don't you think that a little extreme? First of all don't rush into something that you are not going to be able to handle. You already have a child from him, you don't need anything else to say that your a couple. I mean you cant even go to the store and by a pack of cigarettes. Don't worry you have plenty of time!!!
2007-03-28 01:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by imari104012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16, and he's 29? What kind of parents/gaurdians allowed you to be together for 3 years?
Isn't this rape?
Sounds to me like you need to get your education first. Get an education, get a good job so you can take care of your child. You never know what can happen in your life. You need to be able to support yourself. You need to learn to be independent first.
Stay in school.
Children shouldn't be having children.
2007-03-28 04:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by sweetxgrace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't he be in jail? He is 29 and your 16. Where I'm from you can't get married until your 18. You should focus on finishing high school and going to college.
2007-03-28 01:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mommyof2angels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what im gonna say might hurt but you need to hear it...... that whole thing is wrong from the go.what could you have in common with a man that much older then you besides your child.i think he should be in jail let alone marry you but thats another story.your 16 what do you know about love?? you haven't even lived yet.my advice is leave that man alone because you have so much more life to live. marry him and it will be the biggest mistake in your life and your life will be sh*t
2007-03-28 01:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by prettytony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋