I met this guy a few weeks ago, we have been talking and been on 4 dates. He is 20 and so am I. We have only made out and he hasnt tried to sleep with me which maybe means he respects me. He seems like a great guy. Hes always saying things like "oh ill have to take you there or when we come back in a couple months" He calls when he says he will. We see each other right now 2 times a week plus we work together. I'm gonna talk to him soon but does it seem like a hook up or more?
2007-03-28 01:18:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok I am a virgin.
2007-03-28 01:26:32 · update #1
Dana, why on earth would you think its a hookup....you have NOT hooked up :) enjoy the new relationship :)
2007-03-28 01:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by brazilian76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it has the potential to blossom into a lovely relationship, but why rush?
talking to him about his 'intentions' at this stage could give him cold feet if he's insecure!
just be natural, loving, caring, have fun, no rush for sex yet tho i'm sure you'll both know when it feels right.
its only been 4 dates!!
wait til its been 4 months, then ask about how serious he is! probably by then he'll have told you anyway1
if he does suggest sex, tell him only if its going to remain a 'steady' relationship as you're not into casual sex.
if he really likes you, he'll stay around and wait til you're ready, if he's after sex only, he'll soon disappear.
good luck!
2007-03-28 08:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be potential relationship material. Onlt time will tell. The big thing is that he respects you and is not just focused on sex with you. go slow and maybe just come out and ask how he feels about you.
2007-03-28 08:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like relationship potential: but also maybe he is only looking for a great friendship too ? dont rush the relationship gig., enjoy each moment and see where it goes
2007-03-28 08:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by billybadazz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hook up i think its so hard to find a guy like that ur lucky talk to him about this whole situation set the record straight
2007-03-28 08:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships at work are hard......ask yourself this....how many men have u been with at work?.....if the answer is a few...he knows hes on to his hole anyway...so he can wait for the goodies...as word of moth goes round the work place fast about a wee bunny boiler.......is the answer is none....then he sounds like a good guy...and one u might want to make the effort for as good guys are hard to find....im a total bastard
2007-03-28 08:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by mixmastersback 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely sounds like boyfriend material to me... anytime they arent mentioning sex all the time, is a great sign.. and if he is talking about future plans, defintely is a sign that he is wanting more than a "hook up" with you..
2007-03-28 08:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_cotton_candy_gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ... maybe not. but to be honest with you ... you just met him a few weeks ago. sounds like you still have a lot of getting to know of him. just let it happen on its own and don't sweat it.
2007-03-28 08:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by destiney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely not a hook up. Nice guy you snagged. Enjoy!
2007-03-28 08:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by don'twantthistoend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its batter to wait for couple of months and see how your friendships goes. i think you dont need to go too fast he may be just wana be as freind not boy friend.
wait he may talk to you about this and that will be good time to talk.
2007-03-28 08:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by fazal suhan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋