I first loved two sisters and lost them when they became aware that i was dating them, now it looks as if the same is gonna happen again cos these two girls are closed friends but they just get so intimate with me and i fell inlove with both of them right away.
i don't wanna lose any of them, tell me what to do.
2007-03-28 01:17:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
firstly don't date two people at the same time,especially friends as it will only end in disaster for you and them,i suggest talking to both of them to see if they are really interested in you and are aware of the others feelings towards you,you may find they already know whats going on and are fine with it but you must be honest with them and yourself,and if you have to just be friends with both rather than break up a friendship,i hope this helps a little and good luck
2007-03-28 03:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by wideload34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you are not IN love with two girls. You might love them, and you obviously lust them, but you're definitely not in love. To imply such means that their needs come before your own. Which obviously is not the case here since to do what you're doing is going to hurt at least one of them. Probably both of them.
So, your advice that you truly don't need since you know what you need to do. You need to be honest with yourself, and with them. Explain to them that you're attracted to them both and cannot seem to figure out which one you'd want to have an exclusive relationship with. Tell them both that you don't want to lose either of them and you're willing to accept whatever you can from them to keep them in your life....
Now we also know that this is unlikely to happen since you're being a bit selfish. So as someone else has said already. Enjoy the ride and play it out till it blows up in your face. Then when both girls are crying because you used them for your own benefit you can remind yourself just how much you really were in love with them.
Yes, that is sarcasm. Want some real advice. Learn what love really is before you proclaim it, and grow up. (that sounds insulting but its not meant to be. You've just got some maturing do to in this area. Not a bad thing, we all do)
2007-03-28 01:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by b0red2tears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best not to let them know about it from any other source that you are flirting around with both, when you are confident enough that none of the girl will leave you (and that can be done only by you loving them more than ever, make them understand that their life is for you, ie. make them understand that you are the one for them), so when you are confident enough about them, you can reveal the secret, and dont you dare tell them that you love the other one....tell them that the other girl is mad about you and she says that she can not live without you...try to see the reaction of the girl and then if everything is allright, enjoy...you are a lucky man.
Dont think that i am joking,,,it really works and I have tried it.
God Bless you and both of your girlfriends.
2007-03-28 01:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to grow up. You can't continue to behave so childish. Pick one and give up the other or get another altogether. No one deserves the pain you are about to cause them so get over yourself and stay with ONE woman at a time. It's the mature thing to do.
2007-03-28 01:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-28 01:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what do ppl call this.. hopeless romantic? LOL.. sorry.. i kind of get what u're going through. mayb u're just attracted or something. infatuation or whatever... y dont u try being friends with new lady friends. lots of new lady friends...just so that u can find out the difference
2007-03-28 01:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by ask_n_answer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know its soo hard..coz a friend of mine is in the same postiion.....she loves her boyfriend and loves his bestfriend as well.
but i think the best thing to do is leave thm both or wait till time goes by and one of them love another or u should leave one.........or easily just be friends.
2007-03-28 01:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear.
1st i wanna know that r u believe in love?
b coz love can be only with one girl in our life...
we cannot fall in love more than one..
2007-03-28 01:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by shail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u dont love either of them..
because if a person is in love,he is honest and loyal to the other person. he doesn't want to betray his/her love....
2007-03-28 01:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by olive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Covert to Islam, and then you can marry both of them
2007-03-28 01:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Brave Heart 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋