What if he rejects you?
If that were to happen, I would probably never ask another guy out again.
2007-03-28 00:54:38 · 14 answers · asked by BrownSuga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For women: Have you done this? What happened?
2007-03-28 00:55:08 · update #1
Yes it is ok.
He might reject you of course. This of course is something most women never experience. You might like to give it a try just for that reason. Probably not though.
Women seem to enjoy dishing out rejection much more than to risk suffering it themselves.
2007-03-28 00:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, you won't be rejected. If you are, take it as a learning experience on what didn't work. I was always told that me as a guy should expect to be rejected 10 times before I got a yes. Also remember what it feels like to be rejected and be a bit more sympathetic towards guys who might ask you out as well.
2007-03-28 09:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is 2007 there is nothing a girl can't do that a man can. And if he rejects you just move one. Don't let men minimize you. We are all humans men and women, and outside the obvious roles in babymaking there is nothing a man can and a woman can't or vice versa
2007-03-28 08:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by jill_loves_cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what us guys go through asking a woman out. Well when i do ask someone out I think the same thing.......what if she rejects me? you know what? so what. what is the worst thing that could happen? he could say no. this guy may be a good person and if you do not ask him out you may think down the road about why you didn't. either ask him or start flirting with him and maybe he will ask you out.
2007-03-28 08:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little old fashioned. I feel that if a man is interested in you he will ask you out. Chances are, if you have to ask him out then there is far more interest on your end then his. If you fear rejection then it's not a good idea to ask a man out. You can show a man you are interested in him without being so forward as to asking him out.
2007-03-28 08:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by teacher101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why wouldn't it be ok to ask a man out? You can't always wait on the guy to take the first step. If you feel attracted enough to them, go for it.
Also, rejection is something you have to learn to deal with. I've been rejected by plenty of girls. At first it's hard, but you learn to shake it off quickly over time.
2007-03-28 07:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sugar, rejection is part of the dating game. Ask him and if he rejects you don't let his response control how you act in the future. It's horrible to give a stranger or a friend that much power in your life.
2007-03-28 07:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by David W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's nothing wrong with that, he probaly feels the same way. Just flirt with him a little more so that he knows that your interested, and if he likes you, he may ask u out instead.
2007-03-28 08:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by lrb11126 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never done this. i feel that it will be too much honour for any man if i ask him out. and it will demean me somehow
2007-03-28 08:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not i would find it quite flattering, go ahead and ask away, i wouldnt mind at all.
2007-03-28 07:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋