2007-03-28 00:27:33 · 6 answers · asked by limerance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy and i met online, we haven't met yet in person..he's from another continent and so am i...we started out as friends til we came up to where we are now..as lovers..we chatted everyday for close to 3 years now..even talk on the phone..i did sent him presents during his birthdays, did it twice not 'til i noticed he's not doing the same so i stopped...a day before my birthday, they moved in into their new house and i understand they were busy settling their things... but i don't see it as a valid reason not to remember my birthday since that aint my first birthday to celebrate from the very moment we've met. He apologized 3 days after though, perhaps it was only then he remembered that my b-day had passed. As his girlfriend, should i carry on with our relationship or not?....thing is, am just his gf for now and he already forgot my bday...how much more if i'm his wife and he's already bored of my face!....i don't think he would greet me at all even if he know's it's my bday!
2007-03-28 00:45:10 · update #1
lol..not in this lifetime unless he has a damn good reason like he was in a coma or got amnesia.
2007-03-28 00:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,i have been there and done that.I never paid attention to gifts.However,he blew me off on my birthday.I know how it feels,and it doesnt feel great.You get over it,and you move on.Needless to say,i am no longer in the relationship but i forgave him,he is the one who broke up with me.
Also,if you are having doubts already about your relationship,What is it going to be like later down the road?You need to re-evaluate your relationship,and speak to him about this issue.Let him know it bothered you that he forgot your birthday.Good luck hun,and have a good day!
2007-03-28 07:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!! itso ne thing 4 not get a gift. u can live without one but to completely forget about ur birthday?? come on now! how long have u guys been together or are u offical even? i think you should add a little more detail to the question here....
2007-03-28 07:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemmie answer your question first.Yes,i would continue to love this guy even if he forgets my birthday or didnt give me any presents.Because i love him unconditionally and he himself is my best present.
All what i suggest you to do is listen to your heart and do what you think is right.
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 08:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am still in it.
2007-03-28 07:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Batman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will quit it undoubtedly and very fast
2007-03-28 07:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋