Okay to keep a long story short, I broke up with my girlfriend on Monday ( after going out with her for 4 months ) because I found out that 2 months ago, she made love with her ex-boyfriend ( if you kno wat i mean ), but supposedly she was forced to do it because her bestfriend says that he would have beat her up or smacked the mess out of her if she didn't do it. Now the way I feel now I really don't want to forgive her and give her another chance, but for some reason there is a part of me that wants to forgive her and give her a chance. then every time i look at the old picture we took together and see other things that reminds me of her, i start having flashbacks of the good times we had. so what should i do???
2007-03-28 00:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by kinggemini2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmnn!!! I think instead of putting this on a forum you should have discussed the same with her !!!
Be brave and talk to her !!! believe me things will be settled on spot ....
2007-03-28 00:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, okay....she was forced to do it. What kind of situation was she in that she had no other choice? Sounds very unlikely.
Please move on. It was just four months, and you'll be over her in a few weeks. And throw out the pictures. Why have reminders of something that beat you over the head?
2007-03-28 07:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bet thin to do is to tlk thins thru wid her.... find out if she realy luvs u.... n what happened between her n her ex.... tlk thins thru... u shuld consider givin her a second chance.... frm wt it sounds it wasnt her fault .... so tlk to her... if u feel lyk u wanna forgive... then forgive... at least be friends..... there r so many thins i can tell u to do n advice u on... but it will be too long to write down.... anyway talk things thru wid her... n c where it takes u nxt... try a d8... gud luk
2007-03-28 07:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by lil miz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is totally up to you whether you can forgive and forget. if you think you can do so, carry on with this relationship, but you must never bring this matter up in future, on any argument. but from what you say, im sure you still love her. good luck!
2007-03-28 07:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Yen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think u can get past it then go for it but it sounds like a bunch of bs. also its RAPE if it was forced. tell her if she goes to the police and reports it ull get back with her. watch how fast the story changes.....
honestly just move on
2007-03-28 07:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flash forward and move on . Once a cheat always a cheat , no matter what the excuse is
2007-03-28 07:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to forgive.its incredibly hard, but worth the effort...
life may not be perfect, but you can learn to suffer less.you can learn to forgive and you can learn to heal...
I just wish these two quotes will be able to answer your question.
Takecare
2007-03-28 07:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by simply me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her then it will only take time and effort to forgive her but she can always do it again. listen to your heart
2007-03-28 07:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by primandproper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront the boyfriend who "forced" her.
2007-03-28 07:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by Student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on without her, she has issues.
2007-03-28 07:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋