2007-03-27 23:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by mcquillan20@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi mate, well for starters dont waste your dosh on these agencies, cos you are lonely.
you might not be thinking straight, like the others who use these services, thats probably why it aint working.
just relax and focus on your job and things usually work themselves out, for every negative there's a positive.. Look on the bright side, can't be that bad!
all the best mate!
2007-03-27 23:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by bluecow 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long ago your wife left you. If it has been recent, then you are going to feel lonely. You need to give yourself time and patience. You obviously need to get out in order to meet someone. You could try putting an ad in a lonely hearts column. My friend did this, met her (now husband) and has been happily married for over 20 years. You could try joining a local club or meeting your ideal partner at work. Just try to remember that there is someone 'special' out there for you. Just don't try to look too hard. Good luck in your search.
2007-03-28 07:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres lots you can do here, and if friends introducing you to someone, or workmates etc doesnt appeal, why not get yourself out socialising again, there are hundreds of people in the same boat as you, everywhere, join the gym, take a nightclass, get involved in local community events, anything that will keep you busy and you will be surrounded by likeminded people, you will make friends, and godness only knows where it could take you, good luck
2007-03-28 07:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess Ganesha has smiled on me, because I am VERY lucky to have my Beautiful Indian Princess, Kat's! I decided to stay alone for awhile until I got my bearings together. It was then that I met Kat"s, and let me tell you, she is the greatest thing that has come my way in a long time! I love being with her, I am a man, I do not deny it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Try to relax, and BELIEVE that your god is going to look out for you as he has done for me.
2007-03-28 06:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give yourself time to recover, first and foremost.
Starting any relationship now would be desasterous for you. One step at a time, I would suggest or you could end up hurting yourself and another, because you are not ready.
2007-03-28 06:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Peter R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take this time to build yourself up. People will be more drawn to someone who is healed from the pains of the past.
2007-03-28 06:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by TS 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first, get over the healing stage of losing your wife...then call up some friends and go out...your more likely to meet someone out there....if Internet dating does not work then it's time you got yourself out there....you're not gonna find a woman sat in the house all the time..go out and enjoy yourself....
great song Teddy B (the streets).....thought i would just tell you...your avatar looks like phillip schofield...no offence....
2007-03-28 07:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dry your eyes mate, I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up, there's plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-03-28 07:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Freddy Benson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could try gettin a female friend to set you up with one her friends, this way you get t meet new people.
2007-03-28 06:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you could always go on friendly chat sites, not just for dating just for chat to! go on the free ones, i go to www.ukchatterbox.co.uk thats a good one you will be able to meet people in your area to
2007-03-28 07:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by danlyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋