I am Sixteen and my mum is a pain, she never lets me out only to a youth club thingy and i have to be in at nine she is too strict and i really am sick of it what can i do
2007-03-27 23:39:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u have three options
1. wait until ur 18 and move out go to college
2. rebel.. push the boundaries, for example come back later than 9
3. wait until your mom will comes around.. talk to her one on one in a calm tone and reason with her
2007-03-27 23:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by whyMe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe it or not, she is only trying to protect you. She just doesn't want you to end up an unwed mother, or worst yet raped or dead. Just be patient (I know, that is easier said than done). She will let go when she feels that you are mature enough to handle the big, cruel, nasty world out there. Good Luck!
PS-- I had a 10 o'clock curfew on the night of my Senior Prom and a 12 o'clock curfew on the night before my wedding.
2007-03-28 06:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might be a pain right now. May even seem uncool especially because some of your friends maybe staying out. The day is gonna come when you are gonna appreciate mom for what she did.........Just be patient. She doesnot want you to live a life of regret.
2007-03-28 06:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother cares for you a lot....she may seem a little too strict but you need to talk to her without arguments and try to convince her that other places like movies are another place to have fun...
2007-03-28 06:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my rule was, while you live under my roof you abide by my rules.
I grounded my daughter at 18 and she wore it.
Your mum loves you, it is not you she is worried about it is everyone else.
Be thankful she cares, not like a lot of other mothers who don't and just let their daughters go out and do what ever.
2007-03-28 06:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by older mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She'll always be your Mum and she's doing what she thinks is best for you.
Try to politely and calmly tell her how you feel and negotiate compromises, if possible.
2007-03-28 06:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more close to your mum, and ask for her advice even when you don;t need it. this will gain you her trust, and something about parents.
when we are....
0-14 yrs we like our parents
14-30 yrs we hate our parents
30-40 yrs we like our parents
40 > we remember them.
every minute count , use it wisely.
2007-03-28 06:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by AMERO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can turn 18.
2007-03-28 06:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at ur age u say like this and mom always feel the other way round.
things would change, only with time.
2007-03-28 06:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a talk with your mom. tell her that you need some time for you're self too. but tell her in a polite way,so she will not be mad at you.
2007-03-28 06:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋