ok so i recently started seeing this guy who i like the only difference between us is that i am at university at the moment and he never wanted to go so he decided to work after school..
he seems a little bit intimidated by the fact that i am doing a hard course!! my mom thinks it wont work out because we are not on the same level....is this being prejudice???
i think hes a really nice guy so far!!!!!!!,
2007-03-27 23:26:58 · 10 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe a little prejudice but you know your mom just wants the best for you what you need to look at is how do you feel and think farther ahead in the future when you graduate and may be earning more money how will that make him feel talk to your guy and look at the broad prospects see what he thinks maybe it'll be ok maybe not but your young and theirs no law saying you have to come to a decision right now have some fun together and wait and see where the road takes you both he can have some good prospects in his future to you know
2007-03-27 23:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ronni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it doesn't bother your or him, i wouldn't worry about it...however, your mom doesn't seem to mind pointing out that she thinks that he is beneath you, which will probably be bad for him. She may feel the need to belittle him in public, family gatherings, etc...you need to have a talk with her, and fast, if you want any kind of future with this man.
However, he seems intimidated by your tough course...that could be a problem...sounds like HE feels beneath you too. I see trouble in your future.
2007-03-28 07:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cinna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lawyer... And my wife a post woman... And really, sincerely, I love her... No problem.. (My first wife was a lawyer... And our marriage was worse then hell). But if he feels unsecure... Give him confidence... Tell him about your friend who is a student at university like you, but is sooooo stupid.... Then about another friend of you... Who is a mecanic, and who is the most intelligent person you've ever known... He may catch the message...
2007-03-28 06:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it can work... being on the same level has nothing to do with respect, understanding and love. and yes, it is a tad bit prejudiced.
2007-03-28 06:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may be a nice guy but sometimes education comes in between.
2007-03-28 06:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it wont work but maybe it will work. it count on you. you're the one that decide whether this relationship will works or not. not someone else.i dont think this will be a problem
2007-03-28 06:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry but education needs to be similar atleast the othe rpartner needs nto to be intimidated... now for me.. most gilrs get intimidated,... and ihate that... oh well.
2007-03-28 06:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT ISN'T PREJUDICE, IT'S JUST THE WAY OF LIFE. YOU ARE MORE LIKETLY TO HAVE A MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU CAN RELATE TO. BUT YOU ARE BOTH YOUNG, SO YOU ARE NOT AUTOMATICALLY DESTINED TO FAIL.
2007-03-28 06:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by KELLY 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think so because shes basically saying that he isn't smart enough
2007-03-28 06:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Bleeding Autumn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
are u retarded no
2007-03-28 06:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋