I go out socializing every week and most people know that I'm single. Most people say that I'm one of the nicest guys they've ever met, even too good to be true. OK I'm not great looking but Ive been single for over a year now. I treat a woman really well (to the point that it makes other women jealous) so why haven't I got a girlfriend?
2007-03-27 23:20:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My Boyfriend and I were the same...we couldn't find anyone...we met on an internet dating site...its a great way to meet people. I think pubs and clubs are an awful way to meet people you can't chat and its too noisy.
Also i find some women nowadays like the 'treat em mean keep em keen' idea.
Anyway give internet dating a go..or take up a night class in a foreign language or something you are interested in..thats a good way to meet people. Actually most people meet their partners like that rather than bars/ clubs etc!
2007-03-27 23:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Liz S 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
By the sound of it you are a nice guy - probably the nicest guy I've ever not met. But I think we all know that deep down you can be quite selfish....
Yeah - you treat the girls well when you do go out with them but ultimately you can't be bothered and you'd rather go out with your mates on Fridays (get drunk) and have a round of golf on Saturdays and watch the football on Sundays.
You don't really have the time or inclination to have a real full time relationship with a woman because you don't find them very entertaining and have very little to say to them. It seems to me that you like the idea but the reality is it is hassle.
Get yourself someone who wants a no strings attached relationship. The key to this, is to not appear too nice, and in fact, you should be prepared to talk dirty to the fairly soon into the first date.
2007-03-27 23:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Onion 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
someone will come along when the time is right,there will be some girl out there waiting for you but you just haven't found her yet good luck
2007-03-28 00:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by hobbiegirl@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos nice guys finish last. Maybe your just unappreciated. Dont forget a lot of women end up with *** holes and then put up with them because of the false notion that they dont deserve to be with a nice guy.
2007-03-27 23:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why not try being a bit more sexually aggressive and honest with your feelings. women aren't so different from us and they like to feel sexy and if you fancy someone let them know (by aggressive i mean forward, not angry)
2007-03-27 23:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u have lots of money u might be not good looking. but if u have no money AND not good looking - u re a goner. and by the way maybe your standards are too high. try dating not good looking boring girls. i bett u will have success
2007-03-27 23:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am working on my goals and have respect to all....spending time on goals is very important and shows that you are mature...
Apart from that some women may be feeling they are not good enough for you, like a guily feeling (maybe, maybe not).
Don't change yourself just because of that...patience will pay off.....another maturity quality.....
2007-03-27 23:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Dude it's all about self-confidence, girls are attracted to it wherever they see it. Show these women you treat well you're funny, interesting bla, bla, bla. Take a chance.........
2007-03-28 04:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by AG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you NEED a gf? answer, you dont... you said you did?
Date them all and you'll have 100's times more fun and learn lots lots more about women and dating and all...
2007-03-27 23:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Gary G 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
she will come to you in time.....you prolly are a great guy but sometimes people try to hard when it comes to the opposite sex....you are still young so i think theres plenty of time to get a girl...you'll definitely know when the right one comes along....
2007-03-27 23:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋