How Can I Break Up With My Boyfriend????

Question

I have been going out mu my boyfriend for 2 weeks, and i really don't think it's gong to last. Thats why i want to end it now before it gets worse. He's a lovely person but i am just not attracted to him anymore. I'm 15 so i'm pretty new to all this dating stuff!
He moves a bit fast for me, hes already talking about sex, i mean come on!! i don't even want to consider sex until i'm 16.
I just don't no how to break it off! I have never done anything like this before, any advice? How could i bring it into conversation?
Also i know i'm going to get alot of c*r*a*p from breaking up with him, hes one of the most popular guys in school and all his friends ( many of which are girls) i no are going to gossip and b*i*t*c*h about me, he is really sweet but he's just not for me! Any ideas, advice or anything would be really helpful! thanks for reading this! x

Answer 1

Be nice and be true to yourself. Tell him that he's a very nice guy and you like him, but your just not ready to be committed to someone the way he wants you to. Tell him you don't feel like it is right to keep seeing him knowing he feels different about it. Friends who are your real friends will not give you a hard time about it. The sooner you tell him the sooner things will blow over and people can start gossiping about someone else. Good Luck

Answer 2

Hey--at 15 you should be worried about school and home concerns first--dates should be pure fun and that's it !! 16 is still too young for sex---you have no idea what the definition of love is--and withoutREAL love, you shouldn't have sex. You are in charge of your life--which means you make your own choices---clothes, books, and GUYS--so tell him good bye---he will survive and find another young girl to harrass.The other kids can talk all they want--it doesn't mean a thing--even though you THINK it does. Keep your feet on the floor and get all the information you can on sex, babies and DISEASE--yes diseases come from sex---grow up, take control, stand tall and make the RIGHT choices. Be cool, be nice, relax and good luck---smile. BYE

Answer 3

Try not to consider sex until after you married or at least wait till you around 20. If the guy is going to fast and asking for sex, that means he is using you. Just go to him in private and go to the point like I still like you but i don't know if this relationship can last and say its over. he has to respect your decision unless he wants to go to jail. Dint worry if you crush hI'm, all you know he wont hurt or try to rape you because if im guessing hes 15, he doesn't want to deal with the crime that can ruin his life. But if i was you consider sex after you married, because you will end up regret if you do. Statistics shows that 1 out of every 3 girls get pregnant before the age of 21. and half of them ends up with a sexual transmitted disease. If a guy wants just sex that means he doesnt respect and thinking that its a game. You deserve a guy better who can treat right and as a lady and that can wait to get sex.

Answer 4

Make it as simple and fast as possible. If any of your friends ask why, then you could ask them why they like being with fast guys. Just wait. Setting your 16 yr old deadline does no justice to you, you should wait until you are 18 or are married.

My husband was a virgin when he met me. I loved that fact. He dedicated his life to his wife even though he didn't even know me when he was in HS......He grew up in Colorado, I was born and raised in San Diego Calif.....

Keep yourself for your future husband, he will someday cherish the fact that you kept yourself for him. Abstinence is not a nerdy thing to do now, there are many diseases you might pick up if you have sex with every HS stud you meet.

Being educated about pregnancy or disease is not a bad thing.....I applaud you and cheer for you....You are a great role model so I hope you are loud and clear that any guy wanting you just for your body is frowned on......you go, girl. I am your big time support team if you need help with guys....

ps, I became pregnant in hs, I had to drop out to raise my daughter....do you think he made it any better by finishing school for himself? He has a great job now, while I am a mommy of two (same guy.) He decided he wanted a better family, so the court has awarded my custody and a monthly payment from him. Is this what you want from this stud of yours that can't wait to stick his thing wherever??? Please wait until your husband commits to you, it just makes it easier for both of you.......

Answer 5

Say, I've realized I'm not ready for a relationship right now, we can be(good) friends"
nothing more needs to be said. Trust me, this is all you have to say...He should get it and if he tries to say or do anything to get your emotions stirred up, just say it again "I'm just not ready for all this"(maybe like that)and if he STILL doesn't take that for an answer, be strong and say "it's over, my mom/dad said to break it off" in a strong firm voice.
be sure you're at home or around people in case things don't go so well..
you can say it over the phone if you want to bc it's only been two weeks. no biggie..
Talk to mom, dad or a trusted adult if you are able to about what i have said here.
you'll do fine.
Good luck

Answer 6

Tell him that you really care for him, but right now you need to concentrate on your studies. Tell him that thinking about him all the time distracts you, and you would rather not date right now. Wait a week, and he will be with someone else, and start seeing other people. If he asks what happened, tell him that you were just getting too involved and was not ready.

No one is hurt, and no one give you any trouble!!

Answer 7

For girls to break up with a guy, it's really simple and there aren't any rules to follow or break. Girls are girls and just give it to the guy as harshly as you can

Since... he's pressuring you so much, it makes sense for you to call it off. Never let a guy force you or tell you what to do. You want to break it off, just announce "its over" to him and that's that.

No need to "talk about" or "work it out". Once you made it up in your mind, you made up the decision in your heart as well. Good luck and let him have it =)

Answer 8

well i have been in your shoes lots of times and i say hurry and get out of it.the best way to get out of a relationship is to be honest but in a sensible manner.or you could try my method the its not me its you you can make it seem like he is just to different from you just disagree with everything he says or does and just blame it on you to not being compatible and tell him that you don't want it to get to the point where you and him cant be friends anymore so you rather break up now so you guys wont hate each other in the long run.

Answer 9

Just tell him what you've told us - you're not ready for sex and he's moving too fast for you so you're going to have to call it off.

It's not something you can casually bring into the conversation, you're just going to have to grasp the nettle and say 'we need to talk...' next time you're alone together. Please don't break up over the phone or by text, take the time to talk to him in person.

Answer 10

i know exactly how you feel. When he comes up to you, than act weird, and dont talk, and when he says "whats wrong"...than say, " (name) I really like you, but i dont think its working out. It has nothing to do with you, its just that i am not over my last bf right now, and i feel like im using you. Im sorry, but i wanted to end this before it got too serious.