My lost love says that he's never going to let me go again. He says that he's happy that I found him again, but he turns off his cell phone when he gets off from work everyday? We haven't seen each other in ten years therefore we made plans to be together this past weekend. He called me at seven pm and he told me that he was approximately one hour away from where I live, then it seems that he just dropped off the phase of the earth. I didn't talk to him again until Monday morning when I called him at work. He told me that he stopped by the casino and lost his cell phone. I tried before hand to give him complete directions to my home, but he said he would call when he gets closer to me. Do you think he may be playing games? He assures me that he doesn't have anyone in his life right now, should I believe him? What kinds of questions do you think I should ask him at this point?
2007-03-27 22:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him when he's either done with his girl-friend or wife, he can call and/or see you. Let this clown go: he's already taken and you have to realize that.
He's not playing fun games w/ you---it's just you found him too late, that's all. He needs to wake up and realize a coffee date w/ you just can't happen.
2007-03-27 22:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hm...this guy all ready seems like he's going to be a flake. If he was honestly that excited to see you, why would he have made a pit stop, and to a casino much less, on the way to your place? Something doesn't seem quite right here, but that's for you to decide. My best advice is just to let things develop on their own and don't worry about exactly what you should say to him. Years have a way of changing people, and most likely he's not the same guy you knew ten years ago. Tread lightly and just see where things go...one day at a time...I would also advise you to keep your options open at this point.
2007-03-28 05:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a 50/50 thing about a girl in his life....I say he does--or he doesn't really want to see you that bad...he certainly isn't trying very hard. He may be going to get rid of a girl but he hasn't done it yet--and she is the prblem right now. Sounds like he hsa a problem of some kind--and he may be a poor choice of boyfriend at this time...go ahead, try once more--if it doesn't work--hey, you gave it a chance....good luck, smile and relax
2007-03-28 05:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He stopped by a casino? Dump that loser; some things are better when left in the past. The only thing guys love about lost-loves is that it means "warrantied free sex". Guys think that ex girlfriends are always easy to take to bed, so be careful.
2007-03-28 06:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could anything keep you from your long-lost love? A casino and a lost cell phone? This is comparable to the "dog ate my homework" and equally juvenile. He is a "player"....please move on.
2007-03-28 05:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. If he likes you he will call. I wouldn't worry about the cell phone being off. I have to turn mine off at work and I can never remember to turn it on.
Don't appear to be needy....it's the worst thing you can do.
2007-03-28 05:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by flying_blind_and_dyslexic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe him. I think he is treating you very badly and its like you really didn't mind.You deserve a lot better.just goes to show you how much he doesn't respect you to me is says he is bad news and it can only get worse I mean hes lies that is. How lame is that? Good luck finding a good caring partner.One that knows how to find a public phone at least.
2007-03-28 06:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's breaking promises now...don't be suprised if it continues...maybe he's not ready but the 'losing the phone' excuse is lame. He should have done something to contact you if there was some sort of problem and he couldn't get there.
2007-03-28 05:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To play games you have to know the rules.
Let him ask you.
Remember you are both different now than you were then.
He might not know you now.
You may know him the way he used to be.
Follow your heart.
Your treasure is where your heart is.
2007-03-30 01:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Gary B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a weird as story?
2007-03-28 05:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋