About a week ago 2day my ex got in touch with me again (we hadnt spoke in 4 months) and at the moment im very happy with my current boyfriend jamie. but since we started tlkin again i have put myself in a dilema, and its making me sick and i cant sleep at night because i cant stop crying. i now think i am suffering with depression cos when im on my own all i do is cry and i dnt wnt to get out of bed of socialise.
we ended our relationship because he felt i didnt love him and only saw him for the sake of it. so the nite he finished me (over msn) i was in bits and had to have the day off skwl cos it really destroyed me. i wrote him a letter telling him how sorry i am for never showng him how much he meant to me.
Jamie loves me to ******* bits and it breaking my heart that i have slightly stronger feelings for dan. dan has a girlfriend aswel but he is always mentioning my letter to me n how he never realised how i felt. he says he will always have somethng in his heart for me....
2007-03-27 22:26:27 · 7 answers · asked by To put it bluntly... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also when he is on msn it like he only comes online to see me because he tlks to me straight away. i feel guilty for my feelings for him because of his girlfriend lizzy and i would never put someone through the grief i had when dan finished me.
he asks me things like how long have i been with jamie, is he a better kisser, uno when we was together type questions etc.
also last nite he was askin wat i was doing and i thn asked him n he said "i can't exactly tell you what im doing lol, but nufin." and i was like errrr, and he said he wernt havin a ****.
then he had to go all of a sudden because lizzy wanted something, and he said "lol hard aswel, she askin 4 it". he was a virgin until probably last night. and it sounds stupid but it made me sick and upset me alot to think he was losing it to another girl, i was up all night crying after that. but i don't understand why he would start a conversation just to say all that! half the time its like he plans what he is going to say to me. :s
2007-03-27 22:33:25 · update #1
by the way, jamie is 17 years old i am 16 and dan is 18.
jamie is currently on holiday for 3weeks in autralia. so i understand that he has started talking to me at a most vunerable time for me because i miss jamie aswel.
2007-03-27 22:54:28 · update #2
Dan is an ***. You need to forget about him as best you can and work on the relationship with Jamie. Now that you know he is ******* with you head with the msn messaging. You can finally move on and forget about him. Block his msn name. Don't even talk to him anymore.
If he is sleeping with some other girl but talks to you he is only trouble and not worth wasting your feelings on. He will use you and play you. He is bring back old feelings just because he is selfish and wants the best of both worlds. He messed up and he lost you. If you want to tell him, tell him he lost his chance and you are better than him.
Then just work on your relationship with Jamie.
2007-04-04 20:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on girl,ex is ex !About the other guy with a gf,think twice sis,i know you won't like it to happen to you too .So why bother to get into such a relationship.If you need someone to talk to,i will be glad to listen.
You're still young sis! You'll be meeting a lot more people,better than this ones.
2007-04-05 03:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by mommy anie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until u r comfortable in ur own skin, know who & what u want u can not be happy w/urself or another. the head games ur playing is due 2 ur own insecurities(cant move on or let go) my advice is stand alone & find urself u r 2 young 2 b this focused on a relationship. life is tough& only gets tougher & u r added 2 ur self destruction. good luck
2007-04-05 03:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by ttkmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the old guy don't even talk to him, it sounds like he is just trying to tear you up. It's kindof hard to understand your story as it is a little on the frustrating side b/c it jumps but hey your a kid, just relax take it easy and have fun. If you are stressing and you just need someone to talk to I'm online a lot so just instant message me....My husband is in Iraq I'm only 20 but i've been through a lot and I understand a lot. Hope things get better for you.
2007-04-01 19:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by ~never again~ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are to young to know what love is just enjoy life and then when the time come that you do meet your husband then you will be wondering what happen to those two guys that I just couldn't make up my mind about. You need to enjoy life you are to young to be depress about anything.
2007-04-04 23:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
block the ex..avoid him he's a jerk! You just sound lonely and vulnerable. Don't base your happiness on who you are with, learn to love yourself first. everything else will fall in place. Best of Luck!!!
2007-04-05 04:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by pamnation14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn girl chill out dump the bastard find some one who loves you only you
2007-04-05 02:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by Hutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋