did you do anything about it?
2007-03-27 22:25:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes i have, but have never done anything about it. Its not morally correct and I would never forgive myself.
2007-03-27 22:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by beanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No most of my girlfriends were better looking than all of their friends....That is just how it worked out. That said there was this one girl who was my best friend- Im fairly sure I could have broken her up with her fiance had I said something at the time....I rationed that if she wanted me she would have been with me and so therefore I had no right to say anything. The wierdest feeling in the world is going to your best friend's wedding and having a lot of people come up to you afterwards and saying "Man that should have been you up there not him"....Stranger still her mother said to me the night before they got married "She is marrying him, but she loves you." When I saw her the night before the wedding she put her arms around me and cried and said "Matty if you ever get married....Marry someone like me".....The reply?? "Sweetheart they only made one of you and then they broke the mould."
Sometimes i wonder if things could have been different, but theyre not. So I made a deal with her that she can be the best man at my wedding should I ever find the right one. Were still the greatest of friends, probably always will be.
I guess it depends on how much respect you have for your bf or girlfriend. Only you can make the call but if you want a relationship with someone else dump your other half first....Dont cheat.
2007-03-27 22:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,first of all you should not allow yourself to fancy anyone other than your partner.Second of all,you should not only have more respect for your partner but for yourself as well.You should not act on those impulses.You should be faithful to your boyfriend.I question,why people bother being in a relationship(males and females alike),if they are going to act on impulses.I do not know about you,but when i am in a relationship,i respect my boyfriend,and i know that your boyfriend would not appreciate you being with his friend.Not only will you ruin your relationship,but you will be ruining a friendship as well.Good luck hun,and have a good day!
2007-03-27 22:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes...my now ex bf had a friend to die for...i didnt do anything about it..but after me and my ex broke up we hooked up for abt 4 months..turns out he is actaully a ****...besides, we all want what we cant have and when we have it we realise its not what we wanted in the first place!
2007-03-27 22:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did.. Fancied my besy mates guy.. Got drunk one night, told him... had sex then we started seeing each other in secret. We weren't very careful & i fell pregnant. Ended arguing wiv my mate. Lost the baby, the guy & my best friend... I dont advise you act upon it.. U cud lose so much like i did.
2007-03-27 22:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have, and no I haven't. But I'm married now, and my crush is still going on. It's been about 6 years. I know I'm horrible, but I'd never act on it, even if my marriage didn't work out. (Mostly because he's too hot to be tied down. Unless.....lol)
2007-03-27 22:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by garcia_lives86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time.. but did not do anything as I did not want to hurt my gf.
2007-03-27 22:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once faniced my best mates g/f i did notjing about as friendships are important to me that was untill they split up of course
2007-03-27 23:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by big evil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have but I have never done anything about it. Its probably the whole "Forbidden fruit" thing. You want him because you cant have him (and hes probably really hot).
2007-03-27 23:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha That happens 2 me alot...
And ya Just Follow u`r Heart / Feelings!!!!
2007-03-27 22:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Peeti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋