well, i met this girl through a website and we went out twice. i had a great time on both occasions. i think she enjoyed them too. but now she wouldn't return my texts, (by the way, there's also the question is it always better to text or phone?) anyway. i really liked the girl, can someone kindly suggest how to find out whether she's interested or not?
2007-03-27 22:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask her, and i would phone her, text can be read in many different ways, you cant beat hearing a person voice to know what is really going on
2007-03-28 00:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have text her a couple of times and had no response, i would assume that she means she isn't interested. However, if you really need to know, I'd call her. If she picks up, you can ask her out again, and then she has to be straight with you. If she isn't interested, she will make an excuse. You can't get out of answering someone if there are on the other end of the phone. There are 101 reasons to get out of replying to a text! Go for it!
2007-03-28 05:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Flossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about being candid, truthful and honest and ask her point blank how she'd feel about coming out with you again? You won't have to guess anymore as you will have had the answer from the horse's mouth. You can only speak for yourself and only she can speak for herself.
It's not that complicated to tell her the truth about how you feel and then take it from there. Everything you go through is a learning process and whatever is worth having in life is worth taking a certain amount of risk, don't you think?
2007-03-28 05:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out the old telephone and call her. Enough with the text messages! As a parent of a son who text messages, they are annoying. Perhaps she can't answer your text messages because she just physically can't.
Call her on the telephone. Don't leave a message, just keep calling until you get through. If she really doesn't answer, perhaps you have seen the writing on the walls.
2007-03-28 05:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Steven A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks that she's not direct and honest enough to tell you in person, but if she's ignoring your communications, that's a clear message that she's not interested.
move on and let her be. don't email or text her more than seems reasonable.
one phone message is acceptable as well, but only to tell her that you won't bug her and wish she would say something to you if she doesn't want to see you but you get the idea.
you don't need someone who is that dishonest anyways
2007-03-28 05:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she won't return your texts, my guess is she is not interested. You could try calling her and asking her out again and if she hangs up or says, "NO!" ... then you would have gotten the message.
Good luck!
2007-03-28 05:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Seng Kim T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking the wrong person! Perhaps she has no phone credit, or has lost her phone?
Try calling her, you should be able to tell.
2007-03-28 05:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her about your feelings for her and see if she response. If you don't hear from her, the relationship could be over. Move on.
2007-03-28 05:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls dont want to be text. So i suggest that you go to her place and talk to her.
2007-03-28 05:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has no credit on her phone to reply.try e mailing her see if shes still quiet if she is after a week then probably not interested.
2007-03-28 05:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋