i have had many short term relationships.. about 7 months ago i met this girl.. who is an absolute opposite.. in many ways. in particular she is more religous than i am.. along the seven months that we were together i fell in absolute love with her... and i am aboslutley sure that she is the one.... but having this religous background she always kept sayin she is looking for a sign from god... i tried often to convince her.. and everythin seemed fine for a while.. a few days ago she broke up sayin she doesnt feel right.. she says she loves me but hasnt got her calling from god.. what do i do
2007-03-27 22:11:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wtf is wrong with u people, dont give up hope. she will realise the mistake she made and come crawling back. but don;t sit on your ***, do something about it. talk to her, dont just let her go. fuuck dude be a man.
2007-03-27 22:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her her space, if she is really looking for a sign from god, it is unlikely that it will be you that gives her the sign.
tell her if you haven't already how you feel about her and let her know that you won't bother her *because* you love her and want her to do what she knows in her heart to be best... then follow through. don't push her. let her come to whatever she comes to, and move on if need be.
seven months in a relationship is not enough to worry yourself to death over.
it doesn't feel that way when you're in it, but give it time and space and you will gain perspective.
2007-03-28 05:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. If God doesn't want her to be with you then she is right for listening. It's not silly or stupid if thats what she truly believes.
Sometimes what we want and what God wants for us are two totally different things. When that is the case we have to listen because when we try to do things our own way we screw them up.
Respect her beliefs and values.
2007-03-28 05:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats up? move on with ya life if she is 4 u she will come back.
if she is not, then u have to get serious and find a new girl!!!
2007-03-28 05:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by lilies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've been taken for a ride. She is using religion as an excuse. Re-think your feelings for her.
2007-03-28 05:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep talking to her...maybe she will see the error in her ways...don't give up hope...best of luck...
2007-03-28 05:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on.... Religion can get in the way and sometimes its best just to avoid it.....
2007-03-28 05:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by purple_85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should.... let her go, cos obviously religion is more important to her right now...maybe she'll get her calling soon??? Hope everything goes well in the end.
2007-03-28 05:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i feel for ya dude, all that investment and then wah?
you got hosed , don't take it personal move on ,next
2007-03-28 05:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by smoothopr_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-28 05:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by natalie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋