we have broke up for 5times each time i broke up with him he comes back and evrything become normal but this time when i totally forgot him and he back then he asked me for a reson to broke i was not clear to him he love me but always ask for phonosex and websex tht ihate i even told him not to do so but he never listen to me and act like a mad if i not did phoneosex and websex this time whtt should i do he have promised me he will never broke my heart and ask me only once in a month
but i asked him for time i should belivee him or not?i have a new bf i should go wiht him or my old one because i dont wanna cheat anyone i love only my old bf but new bf also loves me buti just like him
2007-03-27 22:09:12 · 12 answers · asked by gargi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ENGLISH IS SUCH A WONDERFUL LANGUAGE
2007-03-27 22:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chrystopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, take a deep breath. There. Now, you need to take a look at your past and your future. Your boyfriend has broken up with you five times, does this say something? If you were married would he have done the same thing? He is forcing you to do things that you don't want to do. Will this continue after you are married?
I think the answer to these questions is YES. Leave this guy immediately. Look for someone who truly loves you and respects your wishes. You shouldn't be forced into doing anything you don' t want to do.
2007-03-27 22:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Steven A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
five times breaking up should tell you something!
there's a good reason for repeated breakups, and if you ignore the signs, you will be stuck for much longer in a relationship in which you will NOT want to be!
loving someone, unfortunately, is NOT enough for it to be a good idea to be with them. If it's unhealthy, it doesn't matter what the other circumstances are.
And five breakups and getting back together is typical of unhealthy, codependent attachments!
(if you don't know what codependency is, look it up, your relationship sounds like a good example of it)
2007-03-27 22:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this one. You broke up with him five times!??! Third time's a charm, fifth time is dumb! Leave that guy behind because he isn't going to change for you. Your new guy loves you for the way you are so please stick with him.
2007-03-27 22:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to your conscience and do it right. Guess you know what is right and what is wrong. Continue your relationship with the man who you think is right while break it up with the man who is a freak.
2007-03-27 22:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the old guy and go with the new one. Besides, he doesn't know how to respect girls.
By the way, where are you from? your English is very hard to read.
2007-03-27 22:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eerrr.... I don't reckon that's real "love" sweetie. You guys breaking up and coming back together is because of convenience and routine.
If you do think it's "love", sometime love alone isn't enough to keep two people together
2007-03-27 22:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be love him. But he may be like you. So you have to decide formula A. love + love= good. or
formula B. love + like= bad.
From here you can have the answer.
2007-03-27 22:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by albertchan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with who you got now because he will only break you heart again he sounds quite ickky if you ask me and your new one sounds like he could treat you right
2007-03-27 22:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cherryade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is sick. Dump him and move on. Cut all communications with him.
2007-03-27 22:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that handicapped that you CANNOT find another guy?? Get rid of this pervert!
2007-03-27 22:13:02 · answer #11 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋