Dating has got more complicted (and expensive) with girls and guys each having their own expectations. Do dates have to involve expensive meals and fancy settings? What elements are a "must" for an unforgettable time?
2007-03-27 22:04:32 · 17 answers · asked by The 8TV Quickie Team 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not believe to have romantic date that you must take her out for a expensive meal with all the settings, but there are five elements that the most romantic and successful dates always contain.
1. Surprise--The element of surprise is a very powerful tool. Women especially seem to relate surprise with romance. It doesn't need to be an elaborate scheme, either.
2. Creativity-- Creativity in your dating life keeps things fresh and passionate.
3. Interest-- Okay, this seems like a no-brainer, but for a successful date one or both of you need to be interested in the activity. Its best if both of you have a modicum of interest, but not absolutely necessary as long as the bored party is keeping an open mind. For greatest success in planning a romantic date, seek to celebrate your partner's hobbies or passions. Chances are your beloved makes similar concessions for you so there.
4. Planning-- Planning is what separates a truly impressive and memorable romantic date from a mediocre one, a sunrise and sunset shared from just another meal and a movie.
5. A Sense of Humor-- Even with the other four elements -- surprise, creativity, interest, and planning-- dates can still be affected by circumstances beyond our control. The ability to laugh together is the mark of great romance. Horribly ruined dates can become private jokes and fond memories if you keep your sense of humor intact.
2007-03-29 21:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by C-Ray 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1.What elements are a "must" for an unforgettable time?
Myself
2.Do dates have to involve expensive meals and fancy settings?.
No,as long as there is something to eat.
3.How do you plan for the most romantic date?
Dinner and pillow talk
2007-03-31 10:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by chain y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really the only MUST is that you WANT to be together and enjoy spending time with each other. Whether that is at a fancy restaurant having an expensive meal, going to the cimena with a box of popcorn, having a walk or a picnic together. It's what you say, do and how you act as much as what your surroundings are... How about a lovely walk along the sea front and stopping for fish and chips - that could be just as nice as a slap up meal with the wrong person.
2007-03-28 05:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best place to go is somewhere that is not boring yet will not be distracting . A man should always make sure that his date is aware that his interest is totally on her . A little homework should be done. find out what she likes . What her interests are . I like to think that a woman would appreciate the extra effort made to show her a good time . Sometimes a great first date can be as simple as a romantic picnic .
2007-03-28 05:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expensive meals and settings run out too fast..
I suggest quiet places where you can set up some lunch to have with her...just the two of you away from noise....its free and lasts a lot longer.....fancy presents and dinners are kinda boring and don't truly reflect you feeling to someone...
2007-03-28 05:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's not so much about cost.
it is more about how well you know this person and the little things you go out of your way to do to make him/her feel special. That special feeling that money can't buy!
A must for an unforgettable time?
Be romantic! it's the effort that touches our hearts, not how much you spend.
2007-03-30 04:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by buttercup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! Relaxed, natural, casual, just wing it and be yourself. Play it by ear and do what comes naturally. If she's hungry, go for a bite, if she lives in the city, take her in the country for a change of scenery, is she (or he, I don't know who is asking here) simply feeling like talking and getting to know you better? go to a quiet "café" and chat while sipping on a black tea with lemon or something... Be yourself as this will make the other feel comfortable and at ease. It's not what you do that matters as much as how you do it. Be yourself. We simply can't be good at playing anyone else. In fact if someone doesn't like us for who we are, do we even want to be with them in the first place???
2007-03-28 05:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Prepare candlelight dinner at my backyard.
2. Spread roses and/or any other flowers she likes at front gate to the backyard.
3. Turn off all lights in the house, and use candles instead.
4. Play the her favorite music.
2007-03-28 05:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting for the first time means paying for a reasonably expensive meal. That's OK. As time goes on, you don't need to spend much on subsequent dates.
As long as both of you are happy, even watching a TV program could be your unforgettable time.
Mark
2007-03-28 05:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
bukit belacan be a good place to date..especially in the morning...well i think he or she should not bring any food just a walk or a stroll around something is fun for he and she...you get to talk deeply bout certain topics...get to know her better...in the end of the day ...if i know this much of her then im am being a good boyfriend.
but seriously study first la....then go gatal :p
2007-03-30 08:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋