I came back to England for my girlfriend only to find out she had been cheating on me with another guy. She dumped me and ran off with him. Should I contact the guy and tell him the situation or should I just walk away. She would have been cheating on him for two months as well. I hate when people do this crap! Ladies input needed too!
2007-03-27 22:00:57 · 18 answers · asked by Becker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know him personally - but I have his contact info via myspace.
I just want him to be aware of a situation that may hurt him later on in life and to know what kind of person he is dealing with. I would say that I am doing it as a moral favour. I am not jealous anymore and just think I should tell him.
2007-03-27 22:19:48 · update #1
You belong to a club. The MAN Club. Us guys need to stick together. As much as I wouldn't want to hear it, I would really want to know if my girlfriend was cheating on me. This girl has a problem and poor morals. Say her new boyfriend decides he wants to marry her. What are the chances of her cheating on him during the marriage?
Perhaps you could send him an anonymous letter spelling out the details. Keep your name out of this, just give him the info and let him check into it.
Thanks for helping another member of our club!
2007-03-27 22:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Steven A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If really you love this girl try to contact her. You have been away for so long and as a human being, her body too needed somebody to warn it up. You cannot say in England you did not have a girlfriend too. It is just a matter of understand and coming in a compromise. I don't think it would be fair for you to contact the guy, instead try to contact but your girlfriend. You have been away for so long and she has develop much love to the present guy that is why she decided to run off with the guy. Goodluck
2007-03-28 05:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all hate it when people do such crap.... but more over it gives you a feeling of smallness( that she has made an idiot out of you).... the fact that you were not intelligent enough to see through her.....
But i would say you must feel happy that she left. You definitely deserve better.
besides, if you want to tell the guy and he already knows about her previous affairs .....then what do you do.... you will make a fool of yourself again
We never know ... how the other guy reacts...
Revenge brings no good..... but just resolve you make yourself into a stronger fort where every girl feel secure and wants to dwell in it....
Don't worry mate!! life is too short to rue over such small things... just chuk the incident and go ahead....
2007-03-28 05:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rabindra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over. Do you think if you tell her boyfriend about she had cheated you, he will leave her and she will come back to you?
Are you ok about being a second best, until she find another guy and dumped you again?...please, walk away and never look back.
2007-03-28 05:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk the hell away from this girl.
It sucks, she'll probably do it to him too, but he's gotten himself in with her in a manner that he was probably aware of at the time so it's not like he hasn't already been warned about her behaviors.
just get away from her. no need to stretch out your contact with her or things having to do with her.
2007-03-28 05:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It serves you no good to spill the beans. Let what has happened be history and move on. By speaking with his present boyfriend would only hurt all parties. Be generous and forgiving. It's all fate!
2007-03-28 05:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point . Chances are he doesn't even know you exist . Which means he never intentionally meant to hurt you . She on the other hand will screw up eventually . Let her know that you know . That will shake her up a bit not being sure what your going do.
2007-03-28 05:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a bad idea because 99.9 times out of 100, you will be viewed as the bad guy-maybe you will be viewed as "jealous" or a just plain liar; you will do yourself a favor if you keep that kind of info to yourself...chalk it up as a part of life's relationships...things happen...start with a new clean slate.
2007-03-28 05:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, as long as you are emotionally able to be done with her then good for you. She doesn't sound like a great catch to me. Let her go with that slimebag "friend" of yours and be done with it. You don't need that drama or atmosphere.....you sound like a well adjusted person ready to deal with any hardship you have to encounter.
Good for you and good riddance to her....you seem much better than that......
2007-03-28 05:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah tell this guy what kind of girl hes dating. He might be skeptical but at least you warned him and you can have a clear conscious.
2007-03-28 05:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋