am staying with my boyfrnd but the problem is tha he is abusing me sometimes he even throw me out at night and l will have to sit out side and he even beat me cause he nos right now l dont have a choice anywere am looking for job.it is not that am not working but am helping him in his shop but not even a single he says thank you all he does is to put me down and call me names l do everthing at home. but there is another problem my ex nos about my me staying with my boyfrnd and everytime he tell me that me and him we belong together we must get back together. l dont even no what to do anywere l used to stay on my on but now am scared pliz help.
2007-03-27 21:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by holy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he treats u like that LEAVE NOW. Trust me honey things will get worse not better. As 4 ur ex does he treat u the way you should be??? If not get rid of him tooo. But if he is good 2 you and u love him u should b with him. go to the police next time ur boyf hurts u and ask them 2 find u somewhere 2 stay if u have no where
2007-03-27 21:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey u need 2 get the hell out of there, it is not alright 2 stay in that type of enviroment, u will always have a place 2 go, as far as ur ex if he knows what is going on talk 2 him about maybe staying with him until u get on ur feet again, under certain conditions that u r confortiable with and that u both have an understaing, cause if he thinks that u 2 were meant 4 each other, then he should have no problem with some type of an argement also he would have no problem being there 4 u as ur FRIEND.
2007-03-28 04:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE LEAVE THIS IDIOT!!!!!
He does not love you, he does not care about you, he does not have any respect for you! He would not be hurting you otherwise. He is beating you and you let him??? Please stand up for yourself! and leave him, break up with him and try to heal on your own without being in a different relationship. Try to take some time for yourself and try to do what makes you happy! This guy will destroy you so much, you will have nothing left! He does not deserve you. Move out, go and live with a friend or your parents until you heal! and get some of your pride back! It's so so bad that you let him. He is doing it because he knows you will let him and just stand there like a punch bag! Is that what you are???
2007-03-28 05:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are places you can go for domestic abuse check into a shelter or find a good church where people are willing to help. Or ask your exboyfriend to help you. But get away from this guy you are with now he will only keep abusing you until you feel worthless, take control of you life and get away from him.
2007-03-28 05:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that animal!, he is treating you not a partner but a housemaid, a slave & a parasite. Have pity on yourself. Give your ex a second chance, he might be the right one for you.
2007-03-28 04:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness! that is so bad. you should defiantly leave him and report him so he doesnt do that to any other girls. but when you tell him its over you need to make sure yo uare with sumone that can protect yo ujust in case he goes wacko on you.
2007-03-28 05:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lyn_Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave!!!!!! if he hurtz you hez not worth it go back 2 your ex it sounds like he stil likez you or even lovez you and doesnt want anything 2 happen 2 you
2007-03-28 04:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to ur family and tell them wats happening...cant go back to family then go find ur friends or relatives
2007-03-28 04:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋