he owes me the truth and i dont deserve to be finished via txt after 14 months together, should i go round there?
2007-03-27 21:44:36 · 16 answers · asked by parent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel sick and nervous
2007-03-27 21:52:56 · update #1
he lives wiv parents and i havent met them, should that matter?
2007-03-27 21:53:37 · update #2
im 23, and he is 24. no i havent met hes parents
2007-03-27 22:02:18 · update #3
then why did he keep seeing me for 14 months if he knew he mite finish me wen he knew i love him, he wasnt gona tell me i kept on as to why he was bein funie wiv me, last time i split wiv him and he said he missed me.
2007-03-27 22:19:43 · update #4
Yes you should. You need to know why he ended it if you was together that long. You deserve an answer. Good luck!
2007-03-27 21:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Juliet Mandy. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you haven't met his parents after 14 months, esp with the added information that he still lives with them, speaks volumes to me. It really depends on how involved your relationship was. Was it a case of that you'd been on and off dating for 14 months, or was it a full on relationship? Did he say he loved you etc?
It also depends on what the text said. Did he explain on the text why he was splitting up with you, or was it more or a case of 'your dumped, get over it' sort of text? If he did provide a reasonable explanation by text, I would recommend that you just leave him alone. If it was just a case of telling you he no longer wanted to see you with no explanation, I wuold recommend that you try to call him to to discuss it further. If he doesn't answer your call, send him a text, and say you just want to talk as civilised adults, and hopefully he will contact you. I would leave the going round to his parents unless you really really really have tried all other methods of contacting him!
2007-03-27 22:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Flossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I said before, forget the jerk. He don't deserve a sweet girl like you. Move on in life - any guy that doesn't have the courage to tell you the truth isn't worth crying over! Just don't understand why you would want to go to his place only to end up being humiliated and more hurt. You don't deserve this and he don't deserve you!
2007-03-27 22:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Seng Kim T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the point in you going round anywhere to see the guy that has already told you you're dumped?
Do you want to put yourself through even more anguish & upset............
Unless you want to be seen as a bunny boiler I'd just leave him to it & move on.
Yes! I realise you have many un-answered questions but what would it achieve to try for answers now? it's not going to make you feel any better, surely.
I doubt you'd get what you're looking for anyhow.
Keep your dignity & just carry on with your life, he really isn't worth it if after 14 months he couldn't even have the guts to tell you to your face, he owes you nothing actually, you owe yourself more...............
2007-03-27 23:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt go around there, after 14 months of dating and you didnt meet the parents? that has to give you a clue to the substance of your relationship, just move on with your life in the end he is the loser.....
2007-03-27 22:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your DAM right matey, you cannot finish with someone via text especially after a lengthy period of time, a one nighter maybe can be blown out with a text, but not nothing serious!! Get ur a** round tehre!
2007-03-27 21:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by G122-GAZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant see what that would achieve can you?
What are you looking for revenge? You got the message he couldnt be ny clearer than that could he?
Start again find a decent feller, and good luck with the next one!
2007-03-27 22:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out for 14 months and he didn't intro you to his parents?? Sounds like he has a problem..........
Leave him be, if he wants ya back, he'll come to you
2007-03-31 13:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u?
14 months and not met his parents?
2007-03-27 22:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by limpit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave the man alone, he really doesn't want to be bothered with you obviously. not trying to sound harsh, but i think all thats going to happen is you getting more upset, however if you have to know the reason then go before he leaves.
2007-03-27 21:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Chrystopher P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋