Ever since being with my bf (3yrs) his ex every once in a while comes out of the woodwork to drive me crazy. For the longest time she would text him all day, then it stopped. She called me on Thanksgiving to tell me next year he would be spending the holidays with her instead of me. I've never done anything to this girl and she keeps doing this. Tonight, her friend commented on a mutual friend's myspace about me (I know it's myspace, but wtf? I don't even know these b*tches) The worst part of it is, my bf just shrugs it off. I'm looking for a new place so I can get away from these crazy people, but I want affirmation that it's not me.
2007-03-27 21:18:44 · 2 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on the rest of you realationship with your boyfriend.If it's good you should stay!
Ex's sometimes just like to get at you.I hate to admit it but I use to give my ex's girlfriend a hard time.And the more she got mad the better I liked it.It would just make my day.Wong it was but I did do it.
But also he use to encourage it .I think it makes guys feel good that women fight over them.But he really should put a stop to it if he really loves you!
2007-03-28 02:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by gibbygirl38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy then talk with him about it and tell him that it makes you feel bad that he won't take your side. Make sure that what you ask of him is reasonable. If he doesn't have regular contact with her then don't ask him to say anything to her. Just ask him to be supportive of you.
If you aren't that much into this guy then this could be a good reason to move on from the relationship.
And stop going to the myspace pages. You are intentionally inflicting hurt on yourself. Have you ever heard of "What you don't know won't hurt you."
2007-03-31 05:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by itsme2033 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋