I am in loved for two years with my boy friend, I was very honest with him, we both from deferent nationality ,we lived in same country, we decided to marry us he told me his family need him to marry from his country, I told him if his family not happy to forget about me, he promised me he will talk his family again, when I was waiting the answer suddenly I found him he start relation with other girl with me she is from same nationality, I asked him but he was not honest with so we decided to separated, he hearted me a lot I was really honest with him, most of time he chatted me with others women , I tried to keep my distance from him but he never let me to do that, after we separated he keeps calling me I asked him to stop call me, he said to let is be sister and brothers I replay to him even I don’t need him as far friend because he hearted me a lot , he did not take my word he call and one day he invited me l did not accept , he sent my friend to return to him but I couldn’t beloved his heart , whenever he talked with he said to me sister and brother to my friend he told her about me he want to cam back to,3 days ago he left to other country for the short time he called to say bye , I told him not to call me any more he said ok , after he lest I found his mail he have arrived well, at the same time the girl the one he have relation with her sometimes we meet on call for the work , she told me he proposed her when he was with me I was really surprised, how he did to me even he did not respect my feeling she keep asking me why we separated, I told her the true he most of time he lied and cheats me, she told him, he sent to her to do this to me , he and her the abused me I never expects this kind of thing he do to me, I told them to stay away from me please did you expect from one educated person break the relation on this way
I need your opinion
2007-03-27 21:14:57 · 3 answers · asked by kodako 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is really hard to move on after a heartbreak when you loved that person but as you've said, he cheated on you.
Usually people who does this have insecurities and that they need reassurance that they are good. And sometimes, they do not really mean to hurt somebody that loves them. On the contrary, they also need to think and learn to settle all their issues.
If I were on your case, I'll let him go. It is really hard to know somebody that you really cared for cheats on you. He may tell you that he will change for you or he might promise you that he will be a good guy for you but for me, I believe that "Cheaters are Liars." It is good that you are determined to forget him. In time you will.
About his current girlfriend, do not mind her anymore. You can directly tell her that you are not interested to talk to her about your personal life in order for her not to keep on bugging you.
I hope I was able to help you. Good luck.
May you find the right person that will truly love you.
::eys^
2007-03-27 22:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by eys^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,he maybe a bit ridiculous hurting you this way...So,what??Let it be.Don't bother about him anymore.He doesn't deserve to be treated well.Don't let him ruin you life,you should move on as there is a brighter future for you.And...to be honest to you,girl...Your question is really hard to be understood...It takes some time for me to understand,though...Anyway,good luck and may God bless you. ^-^
2007-03-27 21:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by monsiuer_reaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very good with his family and make them in your side than by seeing good time tell evrything to their parents.
2007-03-27 21:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by NR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋