My bf is driving me insane! please give me your opinion?

Question

He makes a HUGE deal out of small stuff, and ends up leaving early all mad, and just plain ruining the whole day. Like he starts complaining about things i do, and exagerating them, like if i pat him on the knee, it's like i'm practically hitting him in the testicles. When i point to him that he's exagerating, and that his testicles are waaaay over there and my hand waaaay over here, he accuses me of being a screw up and not admiting it. I guess i 'could' miscalculate and hit him in the groin accidentally, but i didn't. Anyway, he gets all upset because he hates my attitude, and immediately wants to leave, and won't reason with me. He plain out acts like a jerk. The more i say he's making a huge deal out of nothing, the more he says that he can't be with someone like me, cause i don't admit i'm wrong and contradict him on everything. What is going on?

Answer 1

Seems like he is trying to get rid of you with out acully getting rid of you. The easy way out. Don't know enough about your relationship to be sure. But for sure there is some transgressions going on here. Why he would stay with someone he has this much bad feelings for or why you would stay with someone who has these bad feelings for you I could never tell. Seems like classic were in love and thats all that matters working its magic again. Just you guys are going to make it heck on each other if you keep this up. Love is just 3 words you say to each other when you make-up, at the end of the night, or when your making up. But it would seem you guys have lost sight of that or never say it in the first place. The fact is love is just the basic start to a relationship, you need compassion and passion to bring it thru to the end. And I don't see none of that. So really whats going on is that he got ahead of himself going into an intimate relationship. Its not some easy thing anyone can do I mean look at the divorce rate. And you two took on a little bit more then you can chew with him, live and learn, and remeber your places isn't raise this little boy, There is no reason to get mad or upset with someone you love unless your forgetting how much you really love them, or what it is that you do love about them... keep that in mind... good luck