I've heard that it's normal, but its frustrating to me. does any other woman have this problem other than me with their boyfriend? or do i just want sex too much?
2007-03-27 20:09:16 · 11 answers · asked by findtrulove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The simple answer is yes. Each person sex drive is different. I've had a great opportunity to be with a lot of women and a few of those women have been very highly sex. They can be very professional highly educated women but in bed be wild. Their appetite for sex is supercharged.
My first live-in girlfriend could deftly have sex a lot more than I could. Basically when she started having sex she wanted more and more. She became more aggressive in eager when she became excited.
When we eventually parted ways and I went out with other women I did not see this side until meeting a women from South America. She had been divorced about a year and her and I got talking. When she invited me over to her place I was only there about five minutes before we got in bed. She wanted to have sex all the time any time. On the other hand she was not promiscuous.. she had not had many partners in her life but now was very interested in exploring.
So you sound like one of those diamonds that is rare to find. If your boyfriend's not that highly sexed then you may find it difficult to stay with him.
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2007-03-29 19:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question…
Personally, I think that what is “normal” is that each person’s sex drive is in someway different from everyone else’s.
In other words, what is “normal” for you will be different for what another person feels is “normal” for his or her self.
That being said, if this is the biggest issue your relationship has you can probably consider yourself to be pretty lucky. That is, assuming your relationship is based on more than just sex…if not, while it may be entertaining it will not be long lasting.
If you do consider this to be an extreme issue between yourself and your boyfriend, I’d suggest that you try talking to him about your thoughts on the topic. Just be sure to ask him about his as well…honest and open communication is always a key ingredient to an enduring relationship. And remember, often things come up in life that can preoccupy a person or just wear them down to a point where sex doesn’t seem overly important to them, but knowing the person they love is there for them makes all the difference in the world.
2007-03-27 20:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by ATS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was feeling the same so i talked to my man and he told me an interesting thing.
It is not like they dont want as much they would love to have more and more but they have to held back. Ok I know that this may sound weird but why they hold back is if you get to much of something you get bored and go look for something else
So what im saying is that men do need to hold back sometimes to ensure that it doesnt get boring and this will ensure that they wont cheat because they will always fantasize about you
But be warned the girl shouldnt hold back this could also lead to a man looking for it somewhere else
Weird I know but take the time and think about it and you will understand
2007-03-27 20:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the problem, he is. Find a real man. Maybe your question should be "Is it normal for a man to want less sex than a woman?"
2007-03-27 20:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, yes it is normal. We have been acculturated to think that men are somehow more sexed than women. That women should sit back and wait for a man.
Yes, women want sex too, sometimes a lot of it. It is not a disease or a sign of promiscuity.
2007-03-27 20:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's proven that woman can be as highly sexed as a guy. It could be he's in not a mood. Stress is a factor. Not sexually attractive to make him want to do it? Or he has this concept that sex is dirty and only for reproduction.
2007-03-27 20:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by igck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 02:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya. its normal if ur man isnt a real man. haha.
2007-03-27 20:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by guitarcrazy408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it should be the other way round?
2007-03-27 20:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by pinkgrapes2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-27 22:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by pinkyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋