I have been dating the same chick for three months and fell into being the hopeless romantic. B4 i wasnt but theres something about her that makes me this way. I was wondering if I should change my style to more of a tough guy or cool guy. Or would being the sweet fun loving guy work out the best. DO you ladies really find this attractive.
2007-03-27 19:50:59 · 9 answers · asked by M-A- Double T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself man, obviously its working out for you, just let nature run its course. Chicks don't dig arrogant assholes, nor do they like overly romantic dudes......they either like you for you or they don't like you.
Sounds like you gotta keeper, don't change up now.
2007-03-27 19:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, calling your gf a "chick" doesn't make you appeal to me one bit. Lose the cool guy image, we can see through your guy images before you even knew you had one.
You should treat your lady like a star, famous person, etc. You have had your fun being a single guy, so if you want to stay with a serious committment, then do it. No more second guessing about how cool you think you are, just focus on how much you can make that great lady feel like she is on cloud nine forever.
I know, it sounds like alot of work, but your lady hopefully has the same committment towards you and will enable you to do great things. Its the upward spiral. Both of you contributing to each other's well being, its a win, win combo.
Good luck, and hopefully in a year we can hear about your success story about a great marraige??
ps, just wondering, do you call your mother a "chick?" Just wondering if you see every female as a chick or if you differentiate between those you love/admire vs those you just know......
2007-03-28 03:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally find a man who is being sincerely himself attractive. Why mess up a good thing? If you are getting along fine now, don't try and be something you're not.
2007-03-28 02:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by volkgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person. I guess you got lucky being that you said you were a hopeless romantic. so what if this fails then what? I say be yourself, if she fell for that.
2007-03-28 02:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're better off just being yourself...it's a cliche that nice guys finish last...if you pretend to be something you're not eventually it will catch up with and she's gonna figure ya out...besides...if she can't love you for exactly who you are, what's the fukking point in trying? Relationships suck anyhow, be yourself dammit...good luck!
2007-03-28 03:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, what ladies like is for a man to be himself, not act cool or bad, or whatever.
2007-03-28 02:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by cheetahgrrl623 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No honestly I dont. Because you will end up a not loyal person and a person who is empty from deep inside
2007-03-28 02:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who you are, the person that she fell in love with. assuming that she loves you as well
2007-03-28 02:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Chrystopher P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont change cuz if u do she will pick at u so meh
2007-03-28 02:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋