ok so here's the deal. I went out with my girls the other night and ran into an old friend (i've known him since i was 13 and he was 18 and I'm 21 now....) anyways...he just happens to be an ex of a friend of a friend. him and i have been together everday since, catching up on the past few years of our lives...and there is a small "spark" there. my friend of a friend is pissed as hell and thinks i shouldn't do anything with him. normally i would totally agree that ex's of friends are off limits, but her and I are really not friends....so is it wrong that him and i wanna try something and see what happens?
2007-03-27 19:50:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it, you owe this girl nothing and if you knew this guy from way back when, then technically you have more history with him. So screw that controling chick.
2007-03-28 07:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by MayerDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much of an ex is he? Did they break up and it's been over for maybe a year? If so, then what's the problem? Almost everyone is someone's ex! On the other hand, if they only broke up a few months ago, I'd say it will be too painful for her and yes, you could wait anyway. If you are still interested in a few months more, then talk to her again. She may not have had the time to find someone new and get over this ex.
2007-04-04 22:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i got to say is forget your friend cause your missing an opportunity for someone that may end of being your future husband and she's not a really good friend anyway cause she dont want to see you fall in love or get happy cause if she did she wouldnt have a problem just becuz him and her didnt workout
2007-04-04 23:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by jasminwalker23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, let me get this straight... You have a spark with dude, he seems to like you and you like him... Hmmm...Your fake wanna- be girlfriend has issues with this scenario. Well, I say... OH WELL!! Ignore her. She needs to get over it. She's not your friend how dare she even act like she's got a say in what you do. Nothing wrong there at all. Go for it, and good luck!
2007-04-04 17:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really because afterall...he is her EX meaning..he's nobody's property, so she really has no reason to stop you besides the fact that she's just jealous he's moving on. Besides if you guys weren't friends in the first place, you don't have much to lose if you did go for him. BESIDES BESIDES lol, you knew him before she did even if you did lose touch. Go for it! and good luck
2007-04-05 00:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is not your friend what you care about? If she is mad is because she is a selfish person... Have a good time cause it seems that you like him a lot... live one day at a time... now you are alive but tomorrow you never know... live like is your last day on earth. Enjoy this new friendship with this guy... this is your opportunity... THERE'S NOTHING WRONG...
2007-04-05 02:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Vero 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's nothing wrong with it. your friend might talk you out of dating the ex of her friend, but it's up to you to reason out with your friend if you really want to date the guy. follow you heart and don't let jealous people ruin a good relationship.
2007-03-28 14:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by dsnake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. You've known him longer than she has so forget her try it out. If you like the guy then this girl shouldnt matter.
2007-04-05 01:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by SweetPie09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl. that rule doesnt apply here. you are free and clear to do what ever. she is just jealous that he thinks you are hotter than her. start out with a hand job...and you will be well on your way to fame
2007-04-04 20:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. She and he are not together anymore. If she were your friend, she would respect the decision that you and he have decided to spend time together.
2007-04-05 00:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by ltlluci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋