First of all I have broken up with this guy just once..and I second thought myself.so when he made an effort for me to take him.I took him back.Then few months later he broke up with me saying that he was "confused, wants to see what's out there." Then when it was my turn to come to him, he didn't want me back. Then winter break past, we got back together, I don't know why I even gave him another chance but I did. and because he said he does not want to be with other people. and doesn't see himself with others than me.(since I am very non-judgemental, very accepting, learned to love him) Then few months later, which was few days ago, he broke up with me the second time, this time giving me bunch of reasons, which I did not understand. saying that "[I] am not the right one and [he] is not the right one" also "[he wants] to move on ASAP, and that is what [he wants] to do" in my face. What kind of a person would do that?
2007-03-27 18:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by khi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously you love him otherwise you wouldnt be so tolerant.
How much, and how long can you go on forgiving him? Can you live without him? If not then go on accepting his excuses. If you can live without him then give him his freedom. Maybe then he will come to his senses.
I recently lost my gf. I built my whole life around her. I would give my right arm to have her back. I am finding it difficult to live without her. I think I can accept her no matter what. But that is wishful thinking. Now I live in misery even after 1 year has passed.
As you can see I am not in a position to advise you. But I wish you well and pray you will be able to sort out this difficult and complex situation.
2007-03-27 19:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by musashi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both had to break up, then something was wrong and doesn't seem to have been fixed. He broke up with you and I think that you should move on, but don't forget him. His memory will allow you to fully appreciate the real guy that you deserve.
2007-03-27 19:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Take me or leave me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he ended it with u & suddenly wants u back he may have realized how important u were to him.. but on the other hand he could just be using u.. u never know. its one of those things u have to decide. do u have strong feelings for him if so maybe it was the right thing..but considering he broke up w/ u again.. im guessing maybe u were just something for him to fall back on..
2007-03-27 19:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u make other friend then ok, if you are till free,take a chance,i am also in karachi , you can call me 0333-2461375,we can discuss more in details.
2007-03-27 19:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Hot man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him into touch,.... he just wanted to get your approval of what is out there and play and realised what he had now wants u back
2007-03-27 19:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to turn to yahoo answers for realationship help, then u probably arent in the right relationship.. ask yourself, do i love this guy? if the answer is no.. move on.
2007-03-27 19:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your relationship is really confusing with the so many break-ups in between, forget about him!
2007-03-27 19:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by pinkgrapes2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's an asshole, u should have seen this before. he only wants u around when he can't find someone else, or when it is convenient for him. don't waste anymore time on this loser.
2007-03-27 19:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋