I caved into peer pressure last weekend and let myself get drunk for the first time (in the presence of my boyfriend and his roomies). I ended up acting pretty emotional, throwing up, blacking out while hooking up with my boyfriend.....
HOW do I apologize for the behavior, the mess, etc?
Does everyone have a night like this at some point?
If they were all drunk too and I managed to clean up before morning , how much do you think they remember?
2007-03-27 18:22:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Don't apologize, you cleaned up, that's good. I don't know what they'll remember, it'll depend on how drunk they were, but really many people do have something like this at some point... and if you didn't like it, don't give in to them next time! I got drunk once, fortunately I didn't throw up until I was home but I still didn't like it one bit, cleaning up was gross even if it wasn't embarrasing and my head was splitting. So I never did that again, I'll drink a couple glasses but never been drunk since. People may try to push you occasionally but if you just say no, people will respect that too. At least in my experience.
2007-03-27 21:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't apologize if they were all drinking, too. Yes, lots of young people have nights like this at some point...but the smart ones don't have too many. Seriously girl, binge drinking with a bunch of guys, no matter how nice they are, is a bad idea. Everyone can make a mistake, it's only embarrassing when you repeat the same mistake over and over.
2007-03-31 16:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by historyfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever apologize for anything when you are having fun and there is no reasonable evidence to prove otherwise- certain people like to take advantage of others and can or will walk all over you to make themselves look better at your expense! Yes, everyone does have nights like these and people who take advantage of you for this are mentally ill disgusting sick people who need to see a shrink! They are the same type of people who will use this kind of thing as an excuse to make you look bad and blame it on your drinking for the particular night- especially if someone takes advantage of you like a stripper at a bar or something like that! No, that's the alcohol and it's your fault- it couldn't possibly be to do with some sober individual who notices this and uses you to their advantage now could it?!!! After all, people like Clifford Olson, who murder 26 or more people, get special rights and privileges to write their own books in prison and can make all kinds of money but, alcohol, is such a deadly thing, if you get drunk and someone takes advantage of you- you are absolutely horrible!! What's wrong with this sick society!!
2007-03-27 18:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much about it... It sounds like they really wanted you get drunk, so they should've known the consequences. Most everyone who has been in your situation has done something embarrassing like that, and since you made an effort to take care of it, I think you will be o.k.!
2007-03-27 18:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not that big of a deal. Been there, done that. It can be really embarassing at the time, but it'll pass. Just say "Hey guys, I'm really embarassed about last night! I'm an idiot. Hehe Sorry!" With a big sheepish grin.
2007-03-28 02:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jukebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have in my opinion blacked out for 5 hours after having one million/2 a pitcher of vodka and sunkist. Its plausible. yet after speaking with friends my drink grew to become into probable drugged. So she would desire to be a easy weight or she's purely thinks its humorous
2016-11-23 20:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it! If someone is angry, apologize, and move on. Everyone has done something stupid when they are drunk. It's only a bad thing if you make it a habit.
2007-03-27 18:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet they have all done the same kind of things. Years from now you will laugh.
Do watch the drinking in the future, OK?
2007-03-27 21:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by barbara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much about them remembering what happened if they were all drinking too.
I would make sure it doesn't happen again. That kind of drinking is dangerous.
2007-03-27 19:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will probably remember.. i guess you know your limits now on how much to drink. you live and learn. that is embaressing but most people have a few embaressing drunken nights.
2007-03-27 18:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋