i was wondering if it would bother you more if your boyfriend /girlfriend was the same race/ethnicity as you and left you for someone outside your race or would you not care
2007-03-27 17:49:00 · 16 answers · asked by shyababy05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im just wondering has nothing to do with me i just know some people who said it would bother them morethe only thing that would bother me is if i got left or cheated on with someone really hot then it would bother me
2007-03-27 18:06:53 · update #1
It would bother me more if the other person were more attractive than me. That has actually happened to me before, and the race thing didn't bother me at all, it was the hot factor.....
2007-03-27 17:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what would bother me would not be the race issue, but what i did for that person to leave me in the first place. and if i couldn't find an answer i didn't like then i would say good riddance and find someone who was worth being with and would really love me for who i was and not what i was about....
2007-03-28 00:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think if would be a matter of race but just a matter of being left for anyone else. That would hurt no matter what.
2007-03-28 00:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by why 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not bother me what race she was, just the fact that he left would hurt.
2007-03-28 00:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by MsCoconut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'd be the fact that they left me, rather than what race the other woman (or man) was, that would upset me.
2007-03-28 00:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it would bother me the same, no matter who she left me for.
2007-03-28 00:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really.
because I'm usually not the person who cares about race.
if my boyfriend left for a person with a huge personality disorder, then i would care.
but not about their race.
2007-03-28 00:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by whatever21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should it bother you who he decides to date after he has left you is no buissness of yours..... get a grip
2007-03-28 00:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no id beat that guy down because my girl left me for him not because of the color of his skin. martin luther king taught us to kick a guy *** for who he is not for the color of his skin
2007-03-28 00:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by robin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah,that'd bother me.but im white,so it would be kinda like my women went dyke or something.not my fault,just bad wiring in the brain.
2007-03-28 00:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋